im pregnat wat do i do ma mum will kill ma me wat do i do i feel so ashamed of ma self im only 16?

Question

ive been pregnat 4 1 week only ma closist friend knows not even the father knows i shouldnt of had sex without contreception i should have known better

everythin with the girl who fancied me has gone so well know ive ruined ma life i should of used contreception i hate wat i have done and im really scared the father dosent even know yet it only my closeist frien who knows

Answer 1

email me and I will walk thru it with you if you want the help. [e-mail]

Answer 2

You need to tell your mum. yes maybe she will be shocked at first but she will also be the best person to discuss what you want to do, and what is best for you. it's not impossible raising a child at such a young age but having children even with a partner is still very hard, time consuming and tiring.

whatever you decide your mum can be there to help and support you, friends come and go family are always there for you!

remember this tiny life inside of you could be your mum's grandchild...and any addition to the family will have an impact on everyone's lives.

Answer 3

If you are pregnant, calm down hon! My friend had a child when she was 15 and she is doin fine, he is now 8, she has her own buisness and had another baby boy about 8 months ago. It was tough for her at first but i am so proud of her!
I fell pregnant when i was 19 and i thought my mum would kill me but she was just dissapointed that soon changed when the bump started showing, now she telling me to have another!
What ever you choose to do it must be your decision and if you do go a head and keep the baby remember that your life isnt over you can still get a job, go to college or uni. Im training to be a teacher soon! you just have to be prepared to work hard. good luck

Answer 4

It just will not go away and you therefore have to face facts. Your Mother will certainly be upset but in circumstances she will turn out to be your best friend at this time. She will find out eventually, so do not let her be the last to know. Trust your Mum and accept the telling off she will certainly give to you; hopefully together you will decide what is the best course of action to follow.
You state you should not have had sex without contraception. You should not have gone that far anyway. Best wishes to you and your Mum.

Answer 5

Take a pregancy test to see if your pregnate or not. Secondly tell your mother she will be upset but will also help you make the right choice. Third, tell the father its his kid to so he needs to know what your thinking about doing. Want to talk or anything hit me up on yahoo messanger Ecstasy45227 or aol LaStar00. I had my son when I was 19 and i'm a senior in college now. My mom was upset at first but now she loves him to death. Moms will love you not matter what and have your back. They're there to support you dear use it.

Answer 6

Talk to your doctor, talk to your mum or talk to a trusted friend / adult. Whatever you do don't be bullied or rushed into making a decison about whether or not you keep the baby. It is a huge decision which will effect you for the rest of your life. By all means take other peoples advice, but listen to your heart and do what you know is right for you.

Answer 7

First of all I would just like to say that I know of someone who had their first child when they were 14, she kept the baby and now the boy is 17! I'm sure she went through hard times, as everyone else does, it's a scary thing! You need to talk it over with you mom and the father of the child. Your mother probably will be really mad, but it will only last for awhile. She's your mother, she'll be there for you and she'll help you out! She'll probably discuss if your going to keep it or not, just remember it's your decision.
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Answer 8

your mum will not kill you. she may be a bit upset and rant and rave but once the initial shock wears off she will support you.You are not the only person this happens to and yes your right you should have used protection but you didn't and now you need to think about what your going to do and the best person to help you with that is your mum, honest. I had to do it 25 years ago and remember feeling exactly the way you do now.Once you tell her it will be a huge weight off your mind. Go and tell her right now!!!! you'll be glad you did

Answer 9

Well, one option is to tell your parents because they are going to need to know, and will eventually find out. Next you need to tell the father so he knows what is going on. Then you need to get yourself into a doctor for prenatal health. If you don't think you will be able to take care of the doctor you can put the baby up for adoption and give him/her a better chance at life.

Answer 10

i got pregnant at the age of 16 i was Reilly scad to tell my mum so i told one her friends to tell her. mum said it was up to to me if kept the baby or not i did keep the baby and my mum and other family and friends gave me a Lot of help an support . your mum might be Cross at first but i am sure she will come round .if you can not tell her than tell a friend or teacher if you are still at school . do not go it Alon there is people out that can help you. good luck

Answer 11

Yes, you should have known better but it is not the end of your life. My wife had our first child when she was16 and I was 18. We eventually got divorced but there has never been a better Mother than she was and is. She went on to be very successful and you can too. Good luck.