the boy doesn't love me and i just keep on messing myself up. while other guys love me. what do i do?
2006-10-23 07:50:20 · 21 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hey I'll treat you right day and night !
2006-10-23 08:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only can you get pregnant the first time you can also get an STD after the first time. If you are going to sleep with someone make sure you feel right about it and use protection. Not for them but for YOU!!!! A lot of women/girls think they don't matter and don't think to take care of themselves but you can't do anything for someone else unless your taken care of first.
2006-10-23 07:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by stephanieplum4404 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why risk getting an STD, a life changing pregnancy, or even heart break for someone that doesnt love you?? thats just stupid! sex is a special thing that you shouldnt use with everyone just the ones that are worthy...especially if your young u should wait as long as possible being a virgin is actually a huge attraction to guys once you get older. they look at it as respect and it shows you care about ureself (a huge turn on to them)
2006-10-23 07:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you then don't sleep with him. DO NOT have a baby with him, it will not make him love you. If this guy doesn't want you, move on, there are other men who would treat you better than to just use you for sex.
2006-10-23 07:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not sleep with him if he doesn't love you. What would be the point? It would just break your heart. And, yes, you could get pregnant the first time. Was that your question?
2006-10-23 07:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, if he don't love you, don't worry about him. And having sex with him is not gonna make him love you. What you should do, is take time out for yourself. Enjoy yourself. Go to a movie with your gurls or go to a spa or even go get your nails done. Being "guy-free" 4 a while may be the answer.
2006-10-23 07:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean purposely get pregnant to try to keep him? No definitely don't do that, that'll be a horrible mistake.
Do you mean if you sleep with him will you get pregnant? Not necessarily.. just wear a condom and hope it doesn't break.
2006-10-23 07:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by cjh4n32n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him for nothing! It's called sluty! plus, how selfish to try to get pregnant to get a man. Desperate much?
2006-10-23 07:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you don't go and have his baby just because you want to be with him and he does not want to be with you. First of all you should stay away from him. guys want something they can't have. second of all if you don't know that it only takes once to make a baby you should probally not be having sex in the first place.
2006-10-23 07:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can...but thats not the point. Its a sin to sleep with him if your not married, and since he doesn't love you, well, he probably wouldn't marry you. lol
Is he (or any other guy) worth going to hell over?
2006-10-23 08:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by wyomingirlie16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋