I couldn't do it!!!
2006-10-23 07:44:50 · 22 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
No, I agree with you. I think it would be too much and too painful for me. Maybe I'm just a sensitive person, but I wouldn't be able to take back a person who already lost my trust. Don't worry, I think you're normal.
2006-10-23 07:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, b/c you can never seem to fully trust that person again and then you wind up driving yourself insane wondering if they really are where they say they are. Also, every time you argue that sore subject will work its way into the convo and turn into a full blown war. In the end you would only be putting off the inevitable and prolonging a relationship that isn't meant to be.
2006-10-23 14:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God has blessed me in spite of everything that I have done to disobey Him. I was with this girl, and the very act of being with her defied God. She cheated on me and I wanted her back so bad. A few weeks passed and I got over her. I got involved with work school and church. You know how it is, once you start doing something good, bad people come back around to test you. The girl came back, and I didn't reject her I just didn't accept her. I forgave her but I still moved on. I'm taking it real slow nowadays. You never know what you will end up with if you take someboby back. Be careful, tread softly.
2006-10-23 14:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the situation and how much has been put into that relationship. Sometimes things get bad and people do make mistakes.... But it really takes a lot to be able to forgive someone for that and trust them again. I tried to do it, but honestly, I didn't have the trust ever again and he tried hard to be on my good side. It wasn't good for either of us at that point, because I was insecure and he was trying too hard...
2006-10-23 14:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's situations are different. In a long-term relationship, where there is an obvious problem, and the problem can be addressed .... then maybe. People usually cheat in long-term relationships because they feel that they are lacking something ... so they go looking for it somewhere. But in a newer relationship, where the other person is just doing it because they can, hell no!
2006-10-23 14:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, and it never worked out for long afterwards. You have to TRULY love someone to get that trust back, and most of the time, it doesn't come back completely. Then, anytime you argue, it comes out again, and that makes for a very bad relationship. If you can let it go, and forgive them, then, go for it, but, you're a better person than I am if you can.
2006-10-23 14:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Heather R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly no. I would be crushed if it happened to me. For someone to actually cheat means something is seriously wrong with the relationship OR the cheater has fallen in love (or lust) with someone else. Either way it's not the person I fell in love with so I'd move on.
2006-10-23 14:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Scotsman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could try. A relationship is all about forgiveness. It is NOT always true that once a cheater always a cheater, because I know some people that cheated for the hell of it and never did it again because they learned the error of their ways. If they cheated on you more than once then I would not ive them a third chance.
2006-10-23 14:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been married 20 years and yes I would give him another chance AND he knows it. But, I would do it because I know my husband and the type of man he is. I have a lifetime invested in him but, the rule is--if he ever strays he better be the first to tell me. I refuse to be humiliated---you don't humiliate someone you love. The rule works both ways by the way and both of us have had many opportunities.
2006-10-23 14:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by a_redhead1979 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you placed this question in the music category?
You have misspelled words and your grammar is that of someone in the second grade. Please use spell check.
In answer to your question, NO I would not give them a second chance. It doesn't matter how much therapy they receive or how many promises they make, they will do it again.
2006-10-23 14:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋