what can i do to get my husband to talk to me he will not anser his cell phone?

Question

i want to make things clear with him and its just as if he wants to ignore me

Answer 1

It's the hardest thing to do, but it's obviously the wisest right now. If you've called and left messages leave it be for now. Give him a cooling off period, whatever was done must be pretty intense for him to need some time. Allow him that time, sounds like you probably owe him that much.

After he's had the cooling down period, his little time out. Speak with him face to face, the phone is no good as you can't guage body language, and too much mis-communication can happen this way.

Remember when you do speak with him speak calmly and rationally and if you've really messed up, speak with remorse as well, but let rationality rule the conversation, not emotion.

Answer 2

Just let it be. That's the problem with cell phones and Internet and everything else we have to stay in touch today. There is never any time away from each other to actually have time to think of one another. We are always within a seconds touch away. There isn't any missing of each other. Just constant contact and the concern when it doesn't happen.

Go for a walk and chill out and let him do the same. It appears he wants that so let him do so. There is plenty of time to fight or make up or both later.

Answer 3

How many millions of times did you ring his phone already? Just back off, you are married to the man, he will come home tonight and you will have the opportunity to say your piece...trust me on this. When I was first married I would get so freaked out if he was mad at me I wouldn't leave him alone, believe me, I only made things worse. One time I even left work early because I was in such a panic....and it really wasn't as big a deal to him as it was to me. Just let him chill out and he'll talk to you. Go have a cup of tea and a good day:)

Answer 4

I assume you are fighting. You can't make him answer his phone. But if you stop calling all together and give him some time, he might come around and choose to call YOU to talk. Quit hounding him. If he has completely abandoned you, call a lawyer... sometimes filing those papers will make him start talking!

Answer 5

Don't play games. Can you send him a text? If not, leave him a voice mail. Just plan out what you are going to say, and say the most imortant stuff at the beginning of the message, in case he deletes it before he finishes listening.

Answer 6

Well...
When he gets home prepare him a nice bath, maybe a massage and act friendly and sweet.
If he keeps on being an ar-se..then he might be hiding something.
Don't panic and try to detach, put on some chill music and talk to your close ones to find a good solution
Maybe it's time to move on.. or not
Good luck ;)

Answer 7

thats a man's way,of controlling the ball,per say,ignore his ***,if he so childish that he doesn't answer his cell,then leave it alone,move on and know u did your part,some ppl are pathetic,and don't need things fixed apparently,forget him! Find Another,that will Answer Ur Call! GL

Answer 8

He's not answering his cell phone because he's busy sleeping with some hot chick in a hotel room. His hands are full right now. See what happens when you open your mouth and turn into a nag?? Be glad he's having sex and not beating your skull in with a tire iron.

Answer 9

Are you calling him too much? No need to call him all the time on his cell phone...so many people do that and it is annoying.

Answer 10

Phones (or emails or letters, etc...) are not the best lines of communication for spouses. Speak with him face to face in a non-confrontational manner.