yea idk but my life is soo hard.. my mom makes it soo hard for me and i am only 14.. i go to skl and then i go to bball then home then i do my h/w then my friends are making soo much drama wit boys and tons of stuff and idk.. i have 2 friends that are suppose to be my friend but they dont treat me like one.. and idk my life is soo hard..and someimtes i just wanna go to my room and strat cryint my eyes out!! how do i make my life easyer?!?!?!? plz help
2006-10-23 07:41:13 · 19 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sara is does bite that life is hard sometimes, and from what you said it's obvious that you're going through a tough spot and that you're hurting. You know, sometimes a good cry is just the thing. It can help you "clean out" a lot of bad emotions that are tying you up inside. So go for it. Shut the door and cut loose. Cry your eyes out, scream into the pillow, if it helps hit the pillow over and over and hit it good and hard. You'll be surprised at how much better it might actually make you feel.
Now, let's talk about the stuff that making your life hard. School is supossed to be tough, just like bball practice. Just like bball practice gets your body ready for a game and the harder practice is the better for you when game time rolls around, school is practice for your mind and the harder you can practice your mind at 14 the smarter you'll be when you're out of school. So just hang in there and realize that you've only got a few more years of school to practice your brain and then you'll be out in the grown up world and you'll only be as smart as your schooling has made you.
Now, about those girl friends and their drama with boys, just let that be THEIR drama. YOu can say, "hey, I love you, you're my friend and I'm sorry you're having problems with that guy but I've got to study, (or go to practice or do whatever it is mom is trying to get you to do). There are thing you can influence and things you can't. Don't sweat the things that are really out of your control, like how some stupid guy and your friend are getting along.
Best of luck to you, and give that cry thing a try.
2006-10-23 07:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is supposed to be hard. If it was easy then everyone would want to live.
Life is what you make it. let me clue you in on something. Your age is the crummiest, most miserable period you'll experience as a teenager. This is because is raging hormones and when you start to finally develop your feelings and emotions.
So...you'll also find that in another couple of years these so called "friends" of yours will be no more a part of your life than Madonna or George Bush. You getting me on this? Your mother is doing what's right for you. You may not like discipline and being told what to do but that's all a part of life too so don't screw it up and make her disappointed in you.
By the time you reach 16 things will have settled down considerably. At 18 this will be a distant memory and I assure you at 23 or 25 you won't even want to talk to these 'friends' let alone even acknowledge their existence.
Buck up pal! Life being hard hasn't even made it to you yet. What you're experiencing is "cruel". Wait until job, car payment, insurance payments, mortgage, clothing, utilities...shall I go on? Wait until they make an appearance in your life. Not being able to buy the new X-Box game is small potatoes.
Good luck. You'll do fine. Just listen to your mother 9and father if he's available) and stay on the straight and narrow.
2006-10-23 08:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear its tough as bcoz u are not enjoying what u do. Make alot of friends at u`r skl and enjoy u`r bball practices. Remember those friends who don`t like as u r are actually not worth of being friends. No need of putting up a life just to pls others , simply be urself and u will find the best friends for u`r life. Enjoy every moment of life, its too short for any agonies to be included!! Just have lots of fun dear
2006-10-23 07:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Count your blessings. You get to ski & play bball! You get an education. You have a home to live in, interesting things to talk to people about, food to eat, a mother, and most of your life to look forward to.
2. Get some real friends. Extend your social circle, because it's important to meet friends who treat you like a friend. Part of life is learning what we want from other people, and these two so-called friends aren't meeting your needs. Now you know. Find some new ones!
2006-10-23 07:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think if you finish the school and have to support yourself and pay all the bills, how difficult life is going to be. You don't know where you are, the frustration have no reason you just complicated your life. Change the view on the life, and enjoy your age.
2006-10-23 07:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sweetness sara
what you are going thur is "somewhat normal" everyone goes thur this when thee in there teens everything you do seems like the world is coming to a end , just keep ur head up its get better believe me its your age thats it , just be a good person and respect others mostly your mom becuase in 10 to 15 years from now you will look back and laugh and your mother will be your best friend. make the best of it
2006-10-23 07:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol. I HAVE to troll for a minute...is it still trolling if I announce it?....I don't know i have to ask that some time... well, here goes: God must be testing you to see If you continue to do good when you get nothing in return. end trolling. I had to say that. I'm an atheist but that came to mind. all done!
2016-05-22 01:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first thing. Fewer abbreviations would be handy. It makes you sound stupid and lazy and I'm sure you're not. Secondly, that just what it's like when your a teenager, especially if you're a girl. I'm sorry that it's hard, but you should know it will get better.
2006-10-23 07:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Minuet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is generally hard because of the bad choices made by people who have an effect on our lives... and/or by the bad choices we ourselves make in life.
2006-10-23 08:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just hit spell check on your post. The computer just said no.
I hope you don't talk like you type. Cause if you do you are going to have a long horrid life ahead of you. Learn english.
2006-10-23 07:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋