2006-10-23 07:27:49 · 21 answers · asked by smiley2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do you love him and does he love you?
does he treat you right?
can you see youself with him 50 years from know?
do you trust each other?
do you feel like you are suficating with out him by your side?
Ask your self these questions and you will know the answer.
2006-10-23 07:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by TLC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years you would think that you would have some kind of knowledge on where this relationship stands. Although there are many of people out there that are together much longer then 2 years and still have not gotten married. Sometimes marriage can destroy a good thing going, so if this relationship is in good standings then maybe marriage is not the answer at this time. hang in there, the day may come.
2006-10-23 07:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by bingohun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is necessarily about a time frame. Other factors need to be considered, are you both over 21, did you graduate from college,or working, can you support yourselves, etc. Also are you emotionally ready to be with this person for the rest of your life. Are you both on the same page with the idea of marriage? If you answered yes to all of the above, then I'd say your ready. Or at least start with a long engagement. To many people rush in, then divorce.
2006-10-23 07:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe another year or two. Me and my husband have been married 7months we have been together on and off for 10 years that because I THOUGHT I knew him. He messed with women I never thought he would did things I thought he wouldn't. All I'm saying is you may think you know someone when you don't. When you start to kick it with someone and you start to get serious find out about their past and their up bringing Because that has a lot to do with how they are as an adult. And it is not about just staying married its about having a happy loving marriage. I have uncles and aunt that have been married for 20+ years but are they happy? NO they stayed together for kids the and that's not good because my cousins are in abusive and dis functional relationships because they think they don't have to be happy to stay married. Children follow the foot steps of their parents.
2006-10-23 07:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever both of you decide that the time is ready, I've seen a lady live with a man 25 years, I guess they feel married. That little piece of paper isn't everything, if you have been married before. Live together in happiness and the best of luck to the both of you.
2006-10-23 07:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under the age of twenty-five, you're too young to consider marriage. Get your life plan in order first. Get your degree, find a job in you chosen field. Save some money, travel
and see what my be out there for you. Marriage is a serious committment and should never be entered into lightly. Check the stats on divorce in this country, if you haven't experienced it in your own family.
2006-10-23 07:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon how you feel? My first husband and I were together forever and we got a nast divorce a year or so back. My current husband (who is God's gift to me) and I were only together 2 months when we got engaged and we together 6 months on the day of our marriage. We are so happy and prefect. Time does not matter, it is the people in the marriage. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 07:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it takes for both of you to be comfortable with the idea... I think 2 years is plenty of time to figure out whether or not you two are compatible enough for marriage. If you're "not ready" by now, chances are you will never be "ready".
2006-10-23 07:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, after a year or two, a man says he is still "not sure", he is sure. Sure that he does not want to marry you. I was with my last bf for 6 years, 2 of those years we were engaged. We finally broke up because I figure if after that long he still "doesn't know", he knows.
2006-10-23 07:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't gotten an engagement ring in the first 6 months of dating, he isn't the one or doesn't believe you are the one. My husband asked me to go ring shopping after only 1 month of dating. When you know, you know. Obviously, you guys need to move on.
2006-10-23 07:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really matters if you love this guy/girl that you have been dating 4 2 years! If you love him, then get married!! Don't wait!!!!!
2006-10-23 07:31:46 · answer #11 · answered by hugsnotdrugs3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋