yea umm i guess i have 2 really good friends, well i think their my freinds.. like we hang out a ton and everythign i tell them they tell everyone and one of them its her way or no way and they try to boss me around and if i say no they get mad at me and dont talk to me for a long time.. and they are soo lucky to have me as a friend, they have no idea.. like i forgive them way to much and i let them lie to me soo much i know when they are and ugh! its just hard.. and i hate it.. and i get them stuff all the time and a tons of stuff for their bday. and they dont get me anything! ever! and they always forget my bday and we have known eachother for 5 years.. and i know theres like the back of my hand. lol. but idk i just think they dont know how lucky they are to have me as a friend.. but idk.. i was just wondering if i should make new ones that are true to me or work with them?? plz help!
2006-10-23 07:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you read your own words, they aren't your friends. True friends don't get mad at you for having a choice. Move on find some people who like you and not like to use you. There is a difference between the two.
2006-10-23 07:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To quote Snoop Dogg "Drop it like its hooott!" Sweetie get rid of them!! If they are treating like you say they are, and I hope their not, I would let them have a piece of my mind. They only want the stuff you give them and thats all. Listening to a Bossy person is foolishness, and one that tells your buisness is even worse. They don't deserve to have you as a friend. There are soo many amazing people out there that will appreciate you and it isn't very hard to find them. Set up some expectations and go out and meet new people. Cut your old ties. Forget them. You are better than that. Keep your chin up babe, be proud of who you are!Good Luck!
2006-10-23 14:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you need to make new friends. You consider them friends, but I think they consider you as someone to use and abuse. Aren't you worth more than that?
I know making new friends can be hard, but certainly there are others you see every day that you think are similar to you and might enjoy a new friend. Just stop and talk with someone new every day and you might get an invitation to do something together -- or you can be the one to invite someone new to do something.
2006-10-23 14:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are not your friends. First try to talk to them. If they don't listen then They are obviously using you for something if it's not now itz gonna be later. go out there and find yourself new friends. If you cant agree with them that gives them No right to be mad at you. If they don't talk to you, don't talk to them. It's going to came back at them once you find new friends they will either miss bossing you around or they will come to their senses and realize what they've been doing to you. Good luck :)
2006-10-23 14:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u spent to much time on them a true friend accepts u for hu u r helps u in a decission not makes them for u if u choose rong there there 4 u gud or bad they love u and dnt forget sumthing important to u such as ur bday
2006-10-23 14:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by TUTY♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your true friends, get rid of them and make some news ones!!!!
2006-10-23 14:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kiddo...personally, i would get rid of them, they dont respect you and seem very self-centered...no good can come from them.
2006-10-24 00:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r just using u they r not ur frnds
2006-10-23 14:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by jaunty143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not
2006-10-23 14:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋