My friend is always lying to us when she is around her bf but when it is just me and her she is like you are my bestest friend and I'm glad that you are my friend but than a minute later she will turn on you and treat you like crap!! What should I do?
2006-10-23 07:22:06 · 14 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the great Indian philosopher Chankya had said: do not keep friendship with a person who ditch you behind your back and are very good in front of you. They are like glass of poison with a layer of milk on top of it.
2006-10-23 07:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend honey. She ain't your friend if she is doin that to you and she sounds two faced which means she could end up stabbing you in the back. I call people like that i associate with associates becuz you know they are cool but when it comes down to it they aren't. You can find a better friend trust that
2006-10-23 14:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the guts to pull her aside and explain your concerns. If she reponse negitively, then she IS NOT a friend. After you have
cleared the air, avoid being with her. That will give her time to THINK about what she has done, hopefully she will see the error
of her ways.
2006-10-23 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get rid of her, she is a hypocrite.
Maybe she and her bf are making fun of you guys without you knowing it and she treats you like crap just to be cool around her bf.
Friends always transform into total freaks when they get a bf or gf, they think that their social status got a boost or something with their new partner. dumbass people
2006-10-23 14:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by speedster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a friend like that, real friends are really hard to find. What i would do is just don't be around her when she's with her man. Go with your instinct and gut feelings.
2006-10-23 14:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by saotoukta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she doesn't know the true meaning of friendship. I would be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If you value her friendship, work it out, otherwise, walk away....life's too short.
2006-10-23 14:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by sandy_in_bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know you don't appreciate it and that you can't keep being her friend if she is going to be hot and cold towards you. Let her know how her actions are affecting your relationship and that you won't continue to be her friend if she keeps acting like this.
2006-10-23 14:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend or talk to her about what she is doing and tell her how you feel about it.
2006-10-23 14:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her off then leave, surely you don't need someone weird like that.
2006-10-23 14:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to her may there r some miss understandings
2006-10-23 14:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by jaunty143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋