What Do I Do?

Question

I still have feelings for my ex but he's with someone else and I'm having feelings for someone else..but I'm still in love with the ex..uggghhh it's confusing me

Answer 1

well if you still love your ex and ya broke up for a big issue maybe ya shouldnt be but if it was for a small issue maybe ya should of talked about it but i really think that if you think that the other person is better for you then give it a try it couldnt hurt to try something new but if you see it not working cause you still want ur ex go and talk to him

Answer 2

Don't dwell on the past. I know its hard and we all have been there but try and separate yourself from your ex and focus on the new guy. You probably will always have a place in your heart for your ex and that's okay but try and make sure that's all it is. Another option is to talk to your ex and see how he feels about you and what happened between you guys. Maybe he feels the same way and if he doesn't at least you can have some more closure and try to move on.

Answer 3

You go on with your life... You say you have feelings for someone else so right there tells me your not as in love with the Ex as much as you think you are..

Go for it with the other man! take your time, get to know one another and see where it goes... You'll never know until you try...
And from what I can tell, You have already tried with the Ex, So why try again? Especially if you have feelings for another person.

Answer 4

you seriously need to slow down. you may need to let your feelings go for your ex. it is hard, but you may need to just move on.

and if you are having feelings for this other guy, stick with it. don't shift back into first gear.

learn from the first boyfriend, and move on.

you will always remember him, but don't let it ruin the rest of your life.

another thought, don't be so anxious to get back into another relationship.

you may need some time on your own for a while and sort your thoughts and ideas out. think about what you want and what you should be giving to the boyfriend in return.

give yourself time and space and make sure this is what you want and need. don't get hurt again because you were not ready, and don't hurt the new guy either.

pace yourself, relax and just take it slow. this is not a race. you will be fine.

Answer 5

You are only starting to have feeling for your ex again, because he is now interested in someone else. That is all. Go ahead and be with the new person that you are now attracted to, and move on.

Answer 6

You are on the rebound, go ahead and go out with the new fellow just don't make it too serious, you know, it is ok to have friends in the opposite sex, not every relationship needs to be sensual and intimate.

Until you are no longer confused where your feelings are concerned it is not fair to start anything more than friendship with anyone. Good luck. forget about your ex, he's already moved on and won't stay faithful to you if he tries to return.

Answer 7

you can feel that you like more than 1 person at the same time... but truly you can only love one at a time right? to be fair~

if you feel you still Love the ex but Like a new one, don't start the relationship, coz you don't forget the ex enough to accept a new guy...

time will somehow help your Love to fade... so don't keep telling yourself "i really miss my ex" or "i wonder what my ex is doing now" and things like that~

Answer 8

It fine to have feelings for an ex. You may always have feelings for him but it does not mean you love him it just means that he was a special person to you. What you need to do is pursue this new person and see where it takes you both

Answer 9

I would move on. It is possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time. I wouldn't go after your ex because you two broke up for a reason. Good Luck!

Answer 10

if your ex has some on else, and you have feelings for a new one, try the new one.
That will give you the chance to stronger those feelings, or to find out that you ex, is really the one you love, he might be doing the same