If you have been calling someone for more than 2 weeks but that person just doesn't return your calls and texts, would you sense that maybe that person doen't wanna hang out with you anymore? or you would still keep calling? I have this friend that she always kissed up to me and I started feel like she's very annoying so I stopped picking up her calls and totally ignoring her but she's still acted like nothing's wrong and keep leaving me msgs asked me to call her back.
Would you do the same thing like her or would you just leave that person alone? I would definitely back off, how about you?
p.s she's that type of girl who' still want to go party and get drunk and go as crazy as she can, but I'm totally opposite and she knows that but she still likes to bother me..I think she's stupid and immature.
2006-10-23 07:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I were your friend and I kept continuing to call you and send you text messages and you don't respond, that is a sign to me that you don't want to be bothered and I'll realize that. I would back off. Talk to your friend and tell her to keep the phone calls and text messages to a minimum. This girl is driving you nuts and it's getting to the point that you do not want to be bothered anymore. Her lifestyle is her choice. If she wants to continue drinking and partying, that's her choice and it doesn't mean that you have to put up with it. It's all up to you though. Good luck.
2006-10-23 07:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a very shallow person. A true friend would stick by another and help them. They must have a problem if they are drinking and you are just ignoring her. Perhaps she is drinking because you are ignoring her. If you have any guts at all you would tell this person that you cannot continue the friendship, if that's how you really feel.
You sound like a very bitchy type as well, putting the cutting remarks about her at the bottom of the page. If you are so perfect why do you ostracise people?
Real friends look out for each other. Worthwhile people have it within themselves to be honest, even if honesty means another will hear something they don't like.
I remember girls like you at my high school growing up. They used to treat each other the same way. Those same girls are now packing my bags when I go to the supermarket.
2006-10-25 18:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how would you feel if someone did the same to you, ignored and screened calls everytime you tried to contact them? I'm sure she senses something is wrong, but you shouldn't cut people off like that unannounced. At least let her know there is a problem and you just don't want to hang out with her anymore. Good communication may help you end this madness of drunk party girl calling! And everyone deserves an explanation for these sort of situations. =)
2006-10-23 14:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by music_angel2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I would drop that person because obviously they don't want to talk to me and it is a waste of my time to try, but you can't just dump people like that and not answer. She may be trying to figure out where she screwed up so let her know and be grown up about it.
2006-10-23 14:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just call her up and TELL her that you don't want to deal or hang with her anymore? Tell her how you feel and THEN be done with it.
2006-10-23 14:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be her phone not working or sim is changed. check out first and if that is not the case then the signs are very clear. stop.STOP.
2006-10-23 14:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋