we are broken up for 6 months with no contact,we broke up coz my ex and i broke up, he didnt had a job and i was tired of the fighting now he is contactin me via email coz i changed my cell # ..i dont know wat to do he send a email saying he love me and one saying he is sorry for everything...now wat should i do?? i known him for 4 years
2006-10-23 07:10:00 · 20 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your mind and heart should agree. If they don't agree, then don't go for it.
You probably know deep down if he will disappoint you again...so save yourself grief, and BE STRONG!
If you need to stay busy...join a dance class or the gym or whatever you like.
Maybe you should try going to a Christian church in your neighborhood and talking to your pastor. The church can also pray for you too...You can't go wrong with prayer!
God Bless!
2006-10-23 07:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up, because you and your ex broke up? Does this mean you were cheating on your ex?
Ummm... I think you should definitely think about the situation that got you into this mess in the first place. (^ whether or not it's really what I said up there?^) Do you like this guy? Does he really like you, or is he desprate because he can't find anyone else to "get together" with?
If you broke up, it must have been for a reason... Think about that reason. Can you live with it now, or is it just going to cause you more heartache...
I really don't know what you should do. I'm only giving the advice I know how to give. And that's to look at your relationship before, decide whether it's going to be any better if you get back together with him. If it's not. Block him... If so, you might start at least being friends again... Maybe start dating... Just think about it.
2006-10-23 14:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try giving him another chance but under the condition that you talk about the problems you all had. You should tell him what bothered you about him and him the same. They make a game plan to correct the problems. Some compromising might have to take place. If he is not willing to change or you for that matter, then I would move on because things will stay the same. I know this from experience.
2006-10-23 14:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by newroch1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a long talk and see if he's truthful...
Maybe he still loves you or maybe he's just lonely. The problem is: were you okay while you 2 were separated? Do you feel that those years were in vain?
Think with your heart and decide with your mind
Good luck ;)
2006-10-23 14:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chat to him theres no harm in it but be honest. talking and meeting are different. msn is the best happy medium if you dont wanna talk and it gives you more time to think about what you want to say before it comes out.
about the lack of decent sex.
well get in touch with me and if your close enough we can see about helping eachother out
matt x
2006-10-23 14:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by matthew.armstrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up with him for a certain reason, then why would you want to be with him if never got his life together. Tell him to love himself first (get a job, make something of himself) then love you. Is this steph? I miss you.
2006-10-23 14:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by losangelesmoons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously isn't interested in your intellect - did you know they have neat feature now called spell check? WOW that was difficult reading.
He apparently wants you for something - maybe throw him some yellow treats and donkey sausage?
2006-10-23 14:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by egg salad shooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about him? Do you want to be with him? Trust your instincts and your heart. Do what is best with you. If you don't want to be with him then ask him to stop contacting you and its best if you both just move on.
2006-10-23 14:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to speak English.
2006-10-23 14:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you drunk or high right now? If not then u need to calm down. Your typing and grammar are all screwed up.
2006-10-23 14:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋