2006-10-23 07:08:53 · 25 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"All is fair in and war" I hate to coin a worn out phrase. The thing is not to let yourself become a victim and fall into feelings of depression. Inside of you there is beauty that is struggling to get out. Allow it to come to the surface don't suppress it. I mean don't be overcome by things that are stealing your spirit. You have a wonderful sense of feeling and emotion don't let the flame extinguish. All those feelings and emotions should be used for happiness and not hurting.
2006-10-23 22:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by FreeWilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isnt fair sweety you just have to accept resposiblity for what is your doing and let go of what you cant control. Move forward make a plan and get to it. For every problem there is a solution. You may not like it, it may not be comfortable or easy but you can do it.. God doesnt give you more then you can handel. Good Luck
2006-10-23 14:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No everything is life and if living is unfair end it. If you choose to live. Live happy sadness is an easy thing to see but happiness is way more fun.
2006-10-23 14:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by afishmaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. :) Seems like I was born on the "unfair" side of the tracks, and haven't been able to get to "fair" since, in spite of my own best efforts.
Oh well. These things happen, unless you're filthy rich and *have* no worthwhile talent or thoughts to contribute to society, in which case you wind up *fabulous and famous* like Paris Hilton and their ilk. :p
Meh. It's enough to make one want to be an *anarchist* when he grows up. ;) Not that that'll ever happen, but hey...
2006-10-23 14:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what it is...what we make it...I get upset at things, sure...but are they "unfair"? By whose or what standards? If I don't get what I want, I don't think that's "unfair" but I do think it's a bummer...so I work to get it anyway, or some alternative.
2006-10-23 14:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fairness is a matter of perspective and attitude.
I think you get out of life what you give to life. If you look at life as though you aren't getting something you think you deserve, you ought to look at what it takes to get what you want through your effort instead of why you didn't get it.
The self centered egocentric nature of people tend to think they should not have to work for something. Work is what it takes. Not wishful thinking.
2006-10-23 14:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I feel that everyting is unfair, but one thing for sure, I want it all now and so shall be it. Stripp off those tee shorts ladies lets dance:)
2006-10-23 14:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is, and it isn't. It only seems that way. Vanity would be a better word. There's so much vanity in life. It goes back to what you hold to as an anchor.
2006-10-23 14:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only for the last 26 years of my life and i am 26!!
2006-10-23 14:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sometimes, it's all the time. You get over it and move on. Try to have as much fun as you can.
2006-10-23 14:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋