Will the pain of the loss ever go away? It seems like it is always there everytime you think about it. When you go certain places or see certain things, the memory of that person is evident, and the love never subsides and yet you can't be with them.
How do you heal where it doesn't hurt anymore?
2006-10-23 06:48:28 · 4 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way Neptune, it is a "she" not "he" - but point taken. thanks.
2006-10-23 07:57:34 · update #1
I know exactly what you are going through, and sadly there isn't any way to heal that pain. Time is the only thing that will ease it but it will never actually cure the pain. Memories are too powerful that is why the love will always reside in your heart, maybe not as much through time... but I guess I should tell you the cliche advice to go out and try to meet other people and at least attempt to move on with your life. I know that won't help you though, because it hasn't helped me or anybody else I know.
2006-10-23 07:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Yul'ka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know How you feel, I once felt that about a man I was seeing, its a very long process, and it will take a lot of time, it took me 3 years to get over my ex, I moved out of my apartment because of to many memories, Because we have a lot in common I know at certain concerts,I could see him because, we have the same musical taste. but know after healing myself ,I have gotten over him Moved on and found some one I could love and I know that he loves me so give it some time and let yourself heal and things will get better.
2006-10-23 14:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by missbelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say that time heals all wounds and its true, if that person doesnt want to be with u it means he wasnt worth enjoying ur companionship and he wasnt the 'one' for u, u will knw for sure when that 'one' cums along, be patient . ur life is a lot more important then just one person who doesnt even care to b with u i am sure he has moved on and so shud u.its ur decision dont let him influnece ur decision if he isnt in ur life any more.healing will come only when u realise the more important things and ppl in ur life, ur family and friends etc, and most important nobody is more important than ur self. and if u dont luv ur self enuf to forget a persons whose memories are nuthing but painful to u nobody is ever gonna luv u. good luck
2006-10-23 14:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by neptuneN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant be with them you have to trust you weren't supposed to be. That is the way I get through it. I truly believe that what is supposed to be, will.
2006-10-23 14:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋