2006-10-23 06:35:18 · 14 answers · asked by o c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys do the EXACT same thing. I have found thata relaionship will only work if you both ccept the other for who you are! And love them with all theirgood AND bad points!
2006-10-23 06:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats the way it is. Instead of taking umbrage just listen to her suggestions and let her know that you appreciate her point of view as you respect her opinions. Doesn't hurt, she might have a good idea or two and at the very least you are who you are no matter what. This is all part of life my friend, get used to it. But consider this........ think, you are a strong confident man, are who you are no matter what and are man enough not to be bothered by this. As women usually mean well by it. It part of the having a family urge and is to be appreciated.
2006-10-23 08:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are insecure, sensless biatchess!!!!! when you tell the guy that you want to be with "yes" as a girl friend you are taking him that way, some don't realize that. that is the reason for a lot of breakups but the ignorant woman don't see that. a message for the woman: "take your man the way he is or leave him and find someone that is already the way "you want" him, if you won't change for him, he wont change for you!!!! so stop trying"
2006-10-23 06:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your perception is all wrong. Before I married , maybe I liked to run around with the girls, shop with them , etc. I threw my clothes on the floor, and picked them up when I felt like it, I spent my money on whatever I felt like it, because it was All about ME! Well when you decide to marry-"share your life with someone" it becomes about "US", it's not Me Anymore. It is team work! Why should I Stay Home, wash dishes and clothes, work..especially more than my share!, cook , I'd mow grass if I had too, but should I? I do those things to please my spouse, and to help my spouse BECAUSE I Love Him! Why don't you TRY doing things to Please Your Loved One, without having to be TOLD sometime, You might LIKE IT!
2006-10-23 09:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by dalejrfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prncessbaby11@sbcglobal
Do you honestly believe in stereotyping?
If your answer is no, then you are a liar.
Why are you using the word "ALL"?
I've made a lot of changes for my wife, so I just single-handedly DE-VALIDATED your statement. Now, if you so desire, go ahead and press the "Edit" link and remove the word "ALL" from your statement.
Thank you!
2006-10-23 09:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because is impossible to accept them the way they are is like they need to learn to do everything....like were to put the dirty clothes or how to use the toilet......you have to mold them for your own convenience...they know this and as the time goes by they appreciate it
2006-10-23 06:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...and why do men try to mold women into what they are not?
2006-10-23 06:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all know what we want and if you are not what i want there is no way that i could mold you..........you have to love the one's true self
2006-10-23 06:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by old lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they believe that you will be what they not you they want in a man,But this is how it really works...two roads going , in the same direction,the one you travel the one she travels,what happens is the two roads go into one, lane,without saying anything it just happens........that's what its all about,BUT IF SHE OR HE WILL NOT COOPERATE AND MAKE THE SMALL CHANGES THE MARRIAGE IS DOOMED TO FAILURE.....
2006-10-23 06:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because all you men are the same and all change once you get the girl you guys all become jerks
2006-10-23 06:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋