It is very hard for me to get along with other girls? WHy? I'm not a bad girl, nor hard person. I'm a libra for crying out loud. I just want a girl as a friend to hang with. I'm tired of guys! I hate dealing with them all the time. I just need a trust worthy girl to rely on. I never had one! And it breaks my heart to never see a women out there like that! I have a man already and I'm a mother! So, why is it still so hard to get to know girls out there?
2006-10-23 06:07:54 · 5 answers · asked by deadgrl6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My parents always moved from home to home to home, so I never had friend for a while. I went to high schools and gained lost friends, but as soon as i became an adult and went to college no friends talked to me b/c I had a guy bestfreind always by my side! So, what's my problem? I never had one real girl as a friend?
2006-10-23 06:24:08 · update #1
You mean you haven't figured out we are all in competition for the same thing? men?
We are all trying to look prettier, be sexier, thinner, more desireable than everyone one else?
women don't get along with other women because they want to be seen as better than them to men. So.. why give away trade secrets and have someone beat you to the 'best guy in the whole world?'
2006-10-23 06:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I just lost my best friend do to some bs over a man she was dating. Women are very hard to deal with that is why I dont have many female friends. Most females already have this preconceived judgement of me. But when they get to know me they always say "wow you are such a nice person" I thought you were stuck up etc... But I am very down to earth, fun loving, trustworthy female, and I would love to find that type of friendship with another female. My Mom is a libra and besides my sister she is my bestfriend so I know how fun loving and full of life Libra's are!!!! I was just thinking the other day what could I do to find that rock solid female friend relationship. Maybe put a ad in the paper? I know there are plenty of other women out there like us. And the way my girlfriend hurt me I know that relationship is unrepairable. I am a mother too and a beautiful person inside and out and I wish I had another female to share and show my supportive and trustworthy, and I will do anything for side to. Don't get me wrong I love my sister but its not the same as having a friend to call your own.
2006-10-23 13:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Most women are so catty... If you're a smart woman who is comfortable in your own skin, many women tend to be intimidated by that. I've ALWAYS had more guy than gal pals, it's just the way it is.
My boyfriend is the same way: he has more female friends than male. At first that was hard for me, but now I'm used to it. I think it's about who you're more "in tune" with...
Look at it this way: if it's easier to relate to guys, the man you choose should feel pretty lucky you're with him because you're more likely to "get" him!
2006-10-23 13:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had a female friend...? If so, how many...? What is the reason(s) you girls don't stay friends...? I'm gonna tell you like people tell me..."When you fall out with 1 person, it could be mutual... When you fall out with 2 people, it could be them...When you fall out with 3 people, then you need to check yourself... When you fall out with 4 or more, then you need help...(Seek Assistance Immediately)..."
2006-10-23 13:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dani_n_keem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be reserved to urself!talk to evey person whom u like!may u get a good friend soon!
Bye!
2006-10-23 13:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by sleepover club 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋