2006-10-23 06:03:05 · 17 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well... it would be difficult... matter of fact it is difficult... I am going thru that right now too with my best friend of 7 years. Sometimes people grow apart and have different lives... you just have to accept it and go on. You cannot allow it to effect your day to day life ... you will get over it ... just may take time. Don't dwell on it! If it is sour then it is sour! Let it go!
2006-10-23 10:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by CoopyDoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and it was very very dificult. We were best friends for 16 years before the s**t hit the fan. She was apparently told lies about me (which I still don't know exactly what she was told) and believed them. She didn't even come to me and ask what was going on. Then she totally went psycho on me. It was devistating because I loved her so much! And even though she caused a lot of strife after the incident, I can't help but still love her although I will never forgive her. I miss her and really miss her daughter, but her life is now in a totally different place now and has burned that bridge.
If you have to end it, then you have to. But from my heart I am sorry because it is not easy at all. Just make sure you are ending it for the right reasons and not for something trivial. You may regret it in the end if you are just acting on impulse. Find out the truth first!
Peace and Blessed be!
2006-10-23 13:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very difficult....but because I love myself more I would make sure that if it's absolutely positive that the friendship will not get better....I would end the friendship. It might have a better chance of being restored down the road sometime....Good Luck.
2006-10-23 13:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by OLGA W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is possible to end a true friendship. Just because they may have gone sour does not mean that I have to stop being their friend. One can be a friend without them being a friend in return.
2006-10-23 13:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be very hard even though you know the friendship won't work. You've been friends for ever and now you have to end it that's one of the hardest things to go through
2006-10-23 13:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by O'dette 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say just let it go. Its difficult to end something like that but I feel that if you just let go and find new friends you will be okay and the friendship will just fade.
2006-10-23 13:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by kitcatt143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found in my experience that it is better to just let things peter out than come right out and say peace out. Just start being unavailable to get together.. become disinterested in their life. Don't ever call them. One word responses when they ask you about your life. They will get the point but it won't be as hurtful as if you come right out and say your a crappy friend and i don't want to hang out with you anymore. It takes time this way but it's better than making an enemy. This way you can stay acquaintances, and not have any overly hard feelings.
2006-10-23 13:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather the realtionship is sour or not, it must be difficult because of time lost! You can do it! You feel better once its done!
2006-10-23 13:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not difficult to me in situations where my friend has done somethign to betray my trust or cause me to wonder if we were friends in the first place.
2006-10-23 13:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by exhaling2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just did this over the weekend! You just have to make the decision and stick to it. I feel much better now...you gain more than you lose when you lose bad friends!!
2006-10-23 13:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋