i have a boyfriend. we have been together for 4 yrs.we hardly ever fight but when we do he runs to his moms house and stays there until he gets over it.why does he run to mommys house and how can i get him to stay at home with me
2006-10-23 06:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by chrischrissychristine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOW! I went thru a similar problem with an ex-g/f. However I didn't run from her to see my mother when things got hard.
I sought advice from my mother because in my mind, the relationship was over. I hope this doesn't worry you, but is this behavior normal for him? If it is not, then it might me a sign that he is ready to move on.
If it is normal then he (in my humble opinion) should mature up and face his problems and not run away from them.
2006-10-23 06:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh Oh. Sounds like a communication issue. I used to have trouble communicating effectively when I was angry or upset. Although I never ran on over to Mom's to get past it the inability to talk may just be fluster over the situation.
Encourage communication before the next argument and then you'll have a stance from which to initiate effective conversation -- should the event recur.
2006-10-23 13:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has no where else to go, so he goes to mom's. He needs to find himself space there at the place he shares with you. However, there are much worse places for him to run towards, rather than mom's.
2006-10-23 13:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop running away, tell him that u do not like it when he runs to his mom. He needs to be a man, and face a problem headon like a real man. how often do you fight.
2006-10-23 13:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Doc M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
momma boy
2006-10-23 13:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋