Are you having an affair? If so are you jealous of your partners wife or husband ?
what I mean here is that do you feel jealous of the amount of 'normality' that he/she has to provide to their husband/wife - in the intimate sense?
How long has the person been married for?
Do you feel that a person who has had an affair after only 6 months of marriage can foresee a happy future with their husband? I may be wrong but I cant....
2006-10-23 05:59:50 · 23 answers · asked by Mark T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what I mean here is that do you feel jealous of the amount of 'normality' that he/she has to provide to their husband/wife - in the intimate sense?
How long has the person been married for?
Do you feel that a person who has had an affair after only 6 months of marriage can foresee a happy future with their husband? I may be wrong but I cant....
I am not the one having the affair by the way folks and I am single ! I am asking on behalf of a work colleague- help !!
2006-10-23 06:10:55 · update #1
I'm not but it hink that when people have affairs they don't think about wiether or not the affiar is or will affect anyone else until people find out about it. It's funny how people try to hide things like these and it the long run- everything comes out when you lest expect it1
2006-10-23 06:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i'm not having an affair. I have in the past.
No i didnt feel jealous of the amount of sex that was provided.
I've had several affairs at different times in my life, so the various men had been married for different periods of time.
Someone who has an affair after only 6 months of marriage clearly has issues that need sorting, fast, if they are going to have a happy future with husband. I doubt if it will last.
2006-10-23 16:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok not having an affair. But I think if you are having an affair then you have enterd into a "going nowhere" relationship. Ask yourself what you want from any relationship.If all you want is sex from this married women distance your heart for your sake.If you are jealous then you need to ask your self why? why have you gone into this type of relationship?You want more? this person cant give it to you they have no intention. Do you think that they will give up their perfect little arrangent for you? You are actualy part of their perfect little arrangement!!!Start acting all jealous and see how fast they run.....ultimatly the husband is gunna want his share of her and yep she will have to make love to her husband (or lay there and think of england seek comfort in this!!!!!!)There are no time limits as to when its ok to start an affair just the fact that you fancy the pants off some one and no you shouldnt but go for it anyway.But people always get hurt.This is a fact.People think differently as do they feel differently so they can poss deal with it and remain happy who knows.
2006-10-26 16:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by cinders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my single days I did have affairs with married women 4 or 5 I think. Speaking for myself, I was in it for the sex. They wanted an escape from their life and I gave it to them. Did I care that they went back to their husbands? No.
The whole point of having an affair with a married woman is that they can't lay claims on you. They are already taken. We have fun and no responsibilities. Affairs are escapes from boring reality whether romantic, emotional, or whatever. Affairs are fantasy. "Oh if we were together life would be different." "We would travel." "We would always have fun."
WAKE UP PEOPLE!!!
If you are in a REAL relationship 24/7 REAL things happen like bills, work, taxes, rent. Married people would be happier if they would remember to play with their spouses and treat them as lovers and not just room mates.
If she is too tired for SEX who says he's not too tired for ROMANCE. Now neither one gets what they want. I've learned relationships are work and it takes a lot of hard work (ON BOTH SIDES) to KEEP a good relationship from falling apart.
2006-10-23 14:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that people are going to be totally honest on this site??? Everything is kept dont forget!! Know your looking for approval...only your probably not going to get it.... and if you are doing what I think you are doing after 6 months of marriage you need to take a good long look in the mirror....and access your future... be careful! You wouldnt really want a cheater anyway would you? I mean your new friend? Nah..if he's doing the dirty with you he will do it too you...
2006-10-23 13:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am having an affair with a married woman and yes I am jealous of the normality she has with her husband both in the intimate and non-intimate sense
2006-10-26 21:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Alexander 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I started my affaiir with a work colleague 4 months after I got married. The affair and the marriage are both going strong, and I thoroughly enjoy it. Being a work colleague makes it less risky..very often there is a need for us to go on business trips, and almost always we sleep together.
2006-10-24 03:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after six months of marriage you have to ask yourself what were your feelings when you got married? Why did you marry? Only if you find that you really loved your partner have you got a chance of saving the relationship.
2006-10-23 13:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not having an affair. My wife actually is the sexiest woman on the planet, and anything else would be a step down.
2006-10-23 13:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sean J 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never gave her hubby a second thought. She didnt either. The relationship gave us both something we werent getting and that was all it was. SEX
2006-10-23 13:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋