Alright...I'm extremely shy and I get very flustered around guys...and I was wondering if there were any confidence/flirting tips anybody could offer me? I have very low self-esteem because the boy I was with cheated, and I feel so unwanted!
2006-10-23 05:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by xxbaybigurrlxx 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/ men are jerks no need to feel bad i usually just get angry and claim to be a feminist when you not interested it seems they are!!
2006-10-23 05:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by Don't get me started 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Success in the natural born enemy of low esteem. Find something and do it. Get a job, play sports, volunteer your time to a charity. Start to learn something like web design or something and build web pages. In other words find something that will reward yourself. You begin to reward yourself and you will begin to wonder why you really cared what other people thought of you. Then you are free to be yourself around others and that will drive the shy away.
This is what worked for me. I was a complete social outcast because I was too afraid of how others thought of me. After taking karate and becoming a pretty decent football player, I got to the point where I could just walk up to people and talk. It was because I learned I was an individual and did not need the group collective to accept me. And out of some sort of paradox, that is what happened, the group collective accepted me.
2006-10-23 12:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by A.Mercer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son has the same problem. he is very shy around girls. he really like this girl. he asked her out last year. and she said no. he was really disappointed. i told him she probably shy too. just go up to her and ask her again. if she says no. its her lost. because he is a very good boy, he never give me trouble
2006-10-23 13:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by memememememe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have low self-esteem that won't help you out at all.
2006-10-23 13:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Alotta F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you get a little older, almost guarantee you'll lose you're shyness and have more self-esteem...........
2006-10-23 12:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by bobemac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and wait for a good guy to come around.
2006-10-23 12:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out what kind of music your guy likes and then you can use that as a conversation starter.
2006-10-23 12:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on exposing yourself to these situations, then you'll get over your shyness.....
2006-10-23 12:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up , hold your head high.
2006-10-23 12:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by JustJane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from guys
2006-10-23 12:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋