I kinda like got problem with my friend. I'm really upset when he said I'm acting selfish. It's really a bad one to me. Probably he's right because I started to ignore all of my friends. However, I really got hurt with his word and I really don't know when I can get over with it.
2006-10-23 05:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Srey Touch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
See I guess honey it doesn't matter what he says about you maybe you were selfish we all are he can do this to.. Why is it so important for him to point this out to you? What does he have in it to say thease things to you to hurt you so much and tell him you are hurt don't just take it talk it out that is the best way to deal with this im sure...
2006-10-23 05:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cher623 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to wallow on your loneliness. Set a time till when you should feel blue (say, a week). After that, FACE YOUR PROBLEM. Talk to your friend. But before you talk to your friend, try writing down your thoughts and emotions you've been meaning to say to her.him so that when you two actually talk, you're not at a loss and you have a concrete flow of thought.
Everybody gets selfish at one point in their lives. The problem arises when you get stuck with yourself and never move on. So this is your challenge. Muster all your courage and talk--- really talk--- to your friend. And make sure that you also LISTEN.
Reflect on yourself. Do some introspection. And before you talk to your friend, say a little prayer so that God will guide your conversation and your friendship will be restored.
God bless!
2006-10-23 12:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with it is to talk with your friend about it. Work on being a better person, let your friend help you.
2006-10-23 12:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends!
2006-10-23 12:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋