Here it is. I went out with this one girl for 4 days. Then we broke up. Then she said she wanted to get back together. So I fell for it but I got stabbed in the heart. Then I hooked up with this other girl and she is so nice to me and I love her. And she knows it too. But then when I was in Denver the first girl told me she loves me and she wanted for us to fix things. I told her I wanted to fix them too. Then after I got done talking to her I had this other girl that likes me 2 and she wants to do some stuff with me 2. I don't know want to do. The first girl is very beautiful. The second is nice and sweet. The third wants to have sex. Where to turn plx help...
2006-10-23 05:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by brandon_fargerson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How old are you? You seem very young.
It is admirable that you don't want to hurt anyone, but I don't quite understand what the problem is! It seems simple! You know that the beautiful one will only break your heart - she should be out! Now ask yourself, are you looking for a relationship that could someday lead to meaningful sex? Or, are you looking for meaningless sex that will lead to nothing? When you have the answer to those questions, than who you should be with should become clear! Good Luck!
2006-10-23 05:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your patience. The end of the month is almost here! I am waiting for it too:) I imagine she is also in a bad situation: illegal sublet, crammed living quarters. To change a person is possible in a month with an awesome happening, say earthquake and you have to depend on each other, though is close to impossible with normal circumstances. It sounds like you are dealing with her if you can hold your temper and virtue. I would say keep on, and maybe enjoy a walk around the neighbourhood or exercises if you can. Time spent moving around outside of the living space is time not spent cooped up in the living space. Though I would make sure to bring the key everywhere, doesn't sound like she would let you back in without it. If you can smile and role model her into enjoying exercises too she might be better off after, once the whole situation blows over.
2016-05-22 01:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to slow down and ask yourself what your looking for in a girlfriend. Maybe you think one girl is better looking than the other or maybe you really click with one better than the other. Are you looking for a relationship? or just somebody to fool around with? Things should be alot clearer then after you figure that out. Also, as far as the the girl that broke your heart. She sounds pretty flakey, follow your heart. Sex is better with somebody you love!
2006-10-23 05:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Aries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an r-tard. Step one of dealing with women is having standards. The most important standards are standards for behavior. Women who misbehave are shown the door. There is only one reason a woman acts this way. Because she is the type of woman that acts that way. It isn't an isolated, changeable thing. She acts like a horses azz because she IS in fact a horses azz. Knowing that about her, why would you give her the time of day? Are you such a loser that you have to put up with that? Are you? Are you so stupid that you choose that over a normal woman? What does that say about you? Leave her to the drug addict, ex-con, woman beating scum, she will inevitably fall in love with and spend the rest of her pathetic life living in misery with. It's what she wants and what she deserves. Instead, only spend time with women who are good to you. That is the first standard, even before your standards for attractiveness.
2006-10-23 05:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? What? You have short term memory when it comes to the first girl stabbing you in the heart? If you love the 2nd girl, why are you giving the 3rd girl your time of day?
2006-10-23 05:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop being a player and decide exactly what you want in a girl,beauty..personality...sex...or wait for someone that offers all 3 (my chose) girls don't take well to being used and it sounds to me that you aren't really ready to commit at this stage in your life..have a heart to heart with yourself make a decision that is what you want not what you think they all want and stick with it..your true love will find you when you are truly you don't pretend to be somebody else to be "HIP" because that will wear off ..be you and the right relationship will find you and you won't have these feelings you will be 100% into one person..when you find true love nothing will attract you but her
2006-10-23 05:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with the second one she is nice and sweet she wont break your heart and she wont like you just for the sex. the first girl will just break your heart again and it sounds like the 3rd girl just want sex!! So again go with girl #2 she sounds like the one!!
2006-10-23 05:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the one who appreciates you for you. The others probably don't like the fact that you have something good going on. And also if you love her like you say you do then stick with it. Having someone who you love and who loves you in return is quite rare these days
2006-10-23 05:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Richard G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first girl is no good. Her beauty has nothing to do with it, or at least it shouldnt.
When did the third girl come in??
2006-10-23 05:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem from the start is you went from one to another without a break in between. How about stay with the one you are with now.?
2006-10-23 05:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋