He told me that he found another female friend to hang out with but he said there not talking like in a sexual way there just cool but he also said would I be mad and I told him yes. But i love him and I can't leave him right now but I'm also doing the same thing to him.
2006-10-23 05:25:06 · 14 answers · asked by Ms vanilla light skin thick chix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remember this: we're all innocent until proven guilty. Give him the benefit of the doubt and trust that it's exactly what he says it is: just a friendship.
2006-10-23 05:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by RoMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one has he been trust worthy? Two, has he been honest about everything? Three do you trust him? You must take all these things into factor, but if your doing the same thing to him, are you doing naughty things or just being a friend like him. You have to tell yourself the truth and not lie, but flirting leads to other places and keeping a girl/guy on the other side can be complicated and could lead to something else! SO be honest to yourself? Meet the girl and make it known what you feel to him. Trust your instinct. Be the better person! Ask him if he's being 100% honest or just playing with the idea or testing it. I know its difficult b/c I use to be that other girl many times to other men, but it comes back and bites you! I've been eating my past for the past 5 years and it sucks. So, it catches up to you sooner or later.
2006-10-23 05:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. Is the question what should you do because your BF has female friends who he hangs out with but not in a sexual way? If so, get a life, and try trusting him. You cannot expect to rule who he is friends with. You need to trust that when he has a friend who is just a friend, male or female, that is all he/she is. If you have reason to suspect otherwise, or if he spends to much time with them, then do something. But he is telling you he is seeing her, as just a friend, and nothing is happening. Maybe suggest you all hang out. Make friends with her/them as well. Then you can trust him because you know her, and it is not his friend but both of your friends. If you do not like her/them, you do not have to be with them. But you cannot make him exclude someone as a friend just because it is a girl. You will push him away by trying to be controlling. Have some trust and faith in your guy. If he is not worthy of your trust, he is probably not worth being with either.
2006-10-23 05:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Craig B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 19:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant ask him to give up the girl, when you have a guy on the side. if you want him to get rid of her then you do the same.
2006-10-23 05:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer, youre mad because he has someone on the side, and so do you??? you cant have your cake and eat it too, honey.
2006-10-23 05:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well end everything or have a threesome with him and his other gal or have a threesome with him you and your guy....Have fun with it instead of getting mad...
2006-10-23 05:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the side step. he is showing you he doesn't care.
2006-10-23 05:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good grief ho wmany accts do you have??
thats not love..i dont believe any of this
2006-10-23 05:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIS AZZ TO THE CURB BABY YOU DON'T NEED THAT CRAP FROM A DUDE!
2006-10-23 05:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋