im a single dad trying to find my sons mum she was last heard of living in morecambe but that was 3 years ago and as he is nearly 14 he has asked if i can find her for him.
2006-10-23 05:24:51 · 12 answers · asked by shadds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you have custody of him? if so the courts or solicitors may have a forwarding address, or maybe a notice in the national newspaper.... but if she left 3 year ago and not been in contact since she just doesn't want to see him so maybe you should just leave it until he is old enough to deal with the heart ache that is likely to come with finding this women. hope it all works out for the poor lad x
2006-10-23 05:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried any of her family? She must be troubled for her to have abandoned her child. also contact your local Social work dept they should be able to guide you. Your question has made me feel quite sad, I hope your son finds a happy ending.
2006-10-23 05:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is a detective. They have access to software and resources that you do not.
I do not suggest paying for seach software, as it is often a scam that searches public records - ie. if they are public, you can access them without paying.
One last thought: Sometimes lost people want to stay lost...You don't want your son damaged even further by having his mother tell him she didn't want him.
2006-10-23 05:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still in contact with any of her family or you know where they are, maybe, just maybe they might know where she is, you could always ask them, or have one of them pass on a message to her, with a contact number, it's only been three years, so it's not like she has been out of his life since he was a little baby she might want contact with her son too, i hope you find her, good luck
2006-10-23 07:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by ketchanski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you start a court case against her i.e apply for legal sole custody of your son then the court will do everything in there power to track her down before any hearing.
2006-10-23 05:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by ms sensible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start looking on the internet. If you have her social you can do a search like that, if not you may have to hire somebody.
2006-10-23 05:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'v been there mate make sure you'r certain it's for the best , if you'r sure then put her name on the net , someone will know her , good luck .
2006-10-23 05:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, that's sad. I don't really know how you can find her, but when you find a way, PLEASE find her first and make sure that she wants to have that connection BEFORE getting your son's hopes up. That will devastate him. Good luck.
2006-10-23 05:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a very big bit of paper, get her to lie down and be gentle and try not to push the pencil right through the paper
2006-10-23 05:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tez 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try the salvation army they track a lot of people
2006-10-23 06:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋