enjoyments of life? If he wants to give me now what i needed when we were together should i let him. Am i just not ready at the moment? Girls, have you ever let one of your exes seduce you and how did you feel?
2006-10-23 05:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well,speaking from experience,it will take u a little while to forgive urself ,but eventually u will ,and u will laugh about it later,but don't maker it a habit,as much great as the sex is ,trust me ,u don't want to go down this road,cause u will end up being his booty call, resent urself and unable to move on with another guy.the forbidden fruit is so temptimg but exes should remain exes.
2006-10-23 05:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You feel bad about this because you were expecting more. You gave yourself up to an ex who probably got what he wanted: to see if he still had what it took to get you. You're assuming that he wants to give you what you needed when you were together; so until he says "The time apart has helped me realize where we went wrong and I want to give it another try," what you just had was a Booty Call.
Yes, I have had let an ex seduce me. It was an ultimately unsatisfying experience because I was lonely. In that moment, I wanted someones arms around me, I wanted to feel connected. There was a definite physical rush, but just more emptiness when it was over. It's was like being so hungry for a steak that you settled for a Big Mac instead. "Why the hell did I do that?"
2006-10-23 05:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like what 'bored' said, you should talk to her about it. TBH most everybody experiences this kind of problem at about 5-10 months [I had that prob at about 2½ years]. Talk about it with her. Theres no problem with talking about a concern. & be sure to stand by her always. If she obviously starts losing interest in you stay with her anyways. It happened to me my girl started losing interest in me but I stuck by her & when the dude she liked just dropped her she ran back to me because I didn't care about what happened because we both knew she made a mistake & we're fine now... [just sayin'] So be sure to be ready to forgive. HOPE IT HELPED!!!
2016-05-22 01:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The purpose of a person being an "ex" is nothing more than that. Why screw him now,when he was'nt able to screw you then?. Neither one of you actually "needed" each,just a "quickie",for old-time-sake!. You two might as well get back together,instead of sneaking around behind the "other person's" back.
2006-10-23 05:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because deep down inside you know it's wrong, you might not have moved past the emotional phase.
It's happened to me before and I did regret having done something I said I would never do. Yeah the sex was great but it wasn't worth feeling like I disrespected myself. Lesson learned!
2006-10-23 05:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well once me and my x of 3 years hooked up on night and it just wasnt what it used to be. But i think if he is giving you what you need, then definately go and do it. Maybe he realized that he wants you and he wants to be there for you. Now if you seeing someone else also, def. dont do that. but if hes the only one in your life right now, go with the flow and feel free to do whatever you want with him. But if it makes you uncomfortable then dont do it.
2006-10-23 05:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Even 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason you need to feel bad about this is if you are seeing someone else. Because if you are you have betrayed them and cheated on them. But if you are not, don't worry about it. Obviously you needed this.
2006-10-23 05:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jill P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont let that happen any more, he is going to do it everytime he wants if u let him and if you're doing it because u still love him and want him back like that is not going to work...personal experience...good luck
2006-10-23 05:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Gabs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably feel bad because you haven't seen that person in a while and it felt awkward
2006-10-23 05:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by AnDRIana Mo [[♥]] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously you are not together for a reason!!
2006-10-23 05:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by pchs4202003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋