I'm wondering how often people get hit on/approached. I have friends who get hit on what seems like fairly frequently, then others who are equally attractive who say it is rare for them. Oh and what's your age and the general area in which you live. Thanks
2006-10-23 05:13:38 · 18 answers · asked by empress_pam 4 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
They're like London buses - you wait ages for one then loads turn up at the same time. I've had 10 hits in the last month.
2006-10-24 00:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only a few times 3 or 4 that I knew it was happening. I know I am absolutely horrible at reading signs and signals. I guess I never what to assume the wrong thing and make a fool of myself. I have friends tell me all the time I was being hit on and I was clueless. I guess I just assume they are all just being nice. I would guess that I am reasonably attractive and approachable, live on the west coast and I'm in my 30's. Besides it's going to happen to men a lot less because of society rolls make men be the pursuer and that is totally not my personality.
so maybe it's like this, now figure out an order;-)
attractive and approachable (a lot)
attractive and approachable but clueless (a lot but not know it)
attractive not approachable (some? and know it)
not attractive but approachable (some?)
not attractive but approachable but clueless (some? not know)
not attractive not approachable (almost never)
not attractive not approachable and clueless (would think never)
2006-10-23 05:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I honestly think there are vibes or telepathy waves or something that you put out. lol. Maybe it's an air of confidence. I do get hit on some, while my friends, some of whom really are better looking than me, do not. Maybe women sense that I enjoy a good laugh and a laid back style of life, and that appeals to them. In any event, I will check back to read your answers. Male, 42, east tn.
2006-10-23 05:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30/F Montreal Canada
I used to get hit on a lot when I went out, I don't go out as much. I think it has a lot to do with thew way you carry yourself ( I don't mean looks)
Obviously looks play a role but if you have two equally good looking people and one walks around with a smile, head up and just looks more approachable, they will get hit on.
I am a very outgoing person and when we would be out, I would laugh with my friends, not be afraid to dance, look around and just be confident. I think thats why i used to get hit on more then my friends, not because I was better looking
2006-10-23 05:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by mcgag29 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
about once every 3 weeks to be honest, and I'm sure it happens a lot more to ladies. being a guy we are usually the ones expected to do the hitting on. but i notice even if i am not looking as good as i do on other days, if i act like i think i am hot, more girls will approach you.
2006-10-23 05:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Paladin252 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, some years in the past i grew to become into in a bar with my bf and an outdated flame got here in to the bar (she grew to become right into a woman). whilst my boyfriend went to reserve beverages she kissed me and pronounced 'who he' I informed her and informed my bf and the completed night grew to become into hilarious after that stressful assembly. I extremely have some different outdated buddies that i've got no longer met lower back yet I probable will. So the two sexes stumble on me yet i've got had 5 relationships and one million short fling 4/6 are woman and a pair of/6 are male so there are greater women hit on me than male in my journey. it incredibly is my journey! :)
2016-12-16 12:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by battiata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never at all. In fact I think that to girls I am invisable and I do not even concider guys.
I am 49 and I think that I look fairly good and can aford to live.
I reside in the California High Desert
2006-10-23 05:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband dearen't leave me on my own 4 too long.
could b at the shops, a hospital, or the vets,
anywhere in fact and he'll return 2 me with a limpet 4 company.
my age is between 30-40, sorry i'm not going 2 b more specific.
London, UK.
2006-10-23 05:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
27 TAMPA male. Not too often. id say once every 2 weeks or so. i work with alot of women. its all about confidence. the more confident you are the more likely you are to be hit on. people tend to make more eye contact and give out the subtleties.
2006-10-23 05:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends, i could go out 3 weeks in a row, not get hit on! then i was out this weekend and i got hit on roughly 6 times, pulled one guy and we are meeting up again this week, it also depends what frame of mind you are in yourself! often i could be out and men would approach me and i would be like, (in my head) go away im out with my mates havin a laugh, ya know! .. this sounds terrible dont get me wrong im not big headed.. but you asked!.. and i have such a great boost in my self esteem this week., im 23 from ireland!
2006-10-23 05:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by cheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋