now I am confused how to behave with her. she told me that she cant marriy with me because she dont want to hurt her parents and they will not argee with our intercast marriege. so what sould i do?
2006-10-23 04:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOTHING FORCED LOVE CANNOT WORK. LOVE SHOULD BE FROM THE BOTH SIDE. EITHER YOU WIN HER BY YOUR LOVE OR FORGET HER.
2006-10-23 15:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sad abt u coz i had same prblm before some time. I have some nice solution for u, dont worry my friend. Just follow these things what i given u.
1st make sure that she loves u or not, if yes dont hurt her & her feelings. Try to make better image than prviuos. Show her that you care her.
She refuse u bcoz of her parents means she loves her parents than u. So make imp person than her parents for her.
Dont pressurise her for anything. Always stay front of her when he needs someone.
I know my friend this is easy but trust me i did these things for my girlfriend & right now she is with me.
If u really love her lot do these things. I am sure u will get success.
For any more info. mail me on my Email-id rajiv_bhty@yahoo.com
2006-10-23 15:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by rajiv3112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage will take only when boy and girl give consent without any pressure from either side. In your case, it is not clear whether your girl friend approved marriage with you are not? Under such circumstances, your position is weak. Another problem of Girl's parents not agree to the proposal. Either you have to keep quite or convince the girl.
2006-10-23 12:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did Not 'refuse' you. she 'told' you that she dont wanna hurt her parents, and that intercaste marriage may create a problem. you should respect her for the way she amicably wants to settle the relationship because she considers you as her friend just like you do. Love is open communication, understanding , and sharing happiness and sorrows. love is NOT revenge or bitter feelings. so dear friend, dont feel hurt nor confused but only wait for the one you'll love more. Life is not as bitter as it pretends to be. take care and keep smiling. Hope you get the love you need soon.
2006-10-23 12:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first u decide that is she ur best friend or ur lover. ask her whether she loves u or no. if she loved u the reason of her refusal wouldnt be ur casts. try to convince her parents that god didnt make casts we made them also tell them that we all are gods children. take ur parents help if u need but before doing all this see whether whom u love loves u or no. if yes than nothing can stop u and if no then just act as a best friend and forget if u can what happened in ur life. if need any help mail me at_ cutiepie_heer@yahoo.com. best of luck
2006-10-23 12:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave with her as the girl who you really loved but couldn't marry for compelling reasons. That is, like a true, understanding friend.
2006-10-24 03:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves u then ask her to conveince her oarents, if its not possible then remain good friends and dont force her to take a wrong step, as one can become never happy by hurting parents.
2006-10-23 17:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave as a friend
2006-10-25 06:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep cool.That is the key.Talk to her with love and care and understand her problems fully,who knows that can be a turning point.Make her understand that any parents can be convinced.But make sure that she also loves you.If you are confident that she also loves you then be positive and go ahead....best of luck
2006-10-23 12:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by shivayanama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just behave like a friend
2006-10-24 11:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋