My wife has been constantly harrasing me , firstly financially, bcos she has not been able keep herself happy with my salary. secondly she expects my family to financially help me which i am against. she moreover harasses me over small issues by going to police station over small issues and make me go to the police station for an apology. it has been two years since and me and my wife find it very difficult to live toghether, she wants a divorce from me but wants me to intiate. moreover im posted at a very small place where there is only a sessions court. can i get my divorce filed there. im totally clueless about how to go about a divorce. also what is the procedure for divorce on mutual consent. also she might file a complain saying that I have taken dowry from her which is not true. I am spending my days in total trauma and feel suicidal at times. please someone help me out.
2006-10-23 04:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by tots_nh 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
TAKE HELP OF YOUR ELDERS AND PREPARE HER FOR DIVORCE ON MUTUAL CONSTANT. SHE MAY ASK FOR MAINTENANCE IF YOU GOES TO COURT FOR DIVORCE. IT IS BETTER FOR YOU TO TAKE THE DECISION BY ELDER OF BOTH FAMILY,
2006-10-23 14:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that your wife will contest the divorce IE fight for alimony, monies, division of the material assets, etc then you will need a lawyer to help work out the problems
but get going on the lawyer you will need a family court divorce lawyer, if your family has a little cash maybe they can pay for your lawyer but get it going delay will only cause you more harm
also be-careful once divorce is started your wife could make false claims of harassment etc with the police forcing you out of the home or have a domestic violence charge against you
2006-10-23 05:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by goz1111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest to start documenting all things that go on in your marriage until you leave. Documentation is everything! I know it sounds petty but every time she does or says anything document it. Do you have kids? Does she work?
Myself, I would do it first so I could get away from the bull and be happy.
I would go to a divorce attorney asap. When I was ready to leave I would go to the bank and close the accounts {if you don't have kids}. If she wants a family to support her, let her family now support her. This is just strictly my opinion.
2006-10-23 05:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to go to a lawyer, no matter where you are. They have seen it all----don't be embarrassed and don't blame yourself. Let the lawyer do his job and forget the rest.
Keep records, if you can, of her statements, threats, actions, as much as you can for a "paper trail."
You are stuck with the divorce laws wherever you are living.
She obviously wants the money, so don't take any of this personally. Just pity her.
Get out of this situation and learn some life-lessons from it.
2006-10-23 04:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better talk to a lawyer first. Also, my advice is that you have atleast mutually agreed for a divorce and now talk to her in a polite manner that you wil split as good friends and well wishers. Forget the past and don't try to take any revenge. This way atleast you can reduce your trauma.
2006-10-23 10:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by liketoaskq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with a divorce lawyer- they usually don't charge a thing for an initial consultation.
2006-10-23 04:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by TJD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive chum, it quite is the time we framed independent regulations in India. those Acts misguide the girls and that they misutilise the regulations to harass the gents. notwithstanding, extraordinarily much each and all the Judges are very lots conscious that there are various many fake circumstances framed against the harmless adult males. maximum suitable of large fortune thank you, heat Regards & could GOD Bless G Senthil Iyappan
2016-10-16 07:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things can get DIRTY if you have anything that she can take from you you need to go see a lawyer FIRST THING, then they will fill you in on the rest
2006-10-23 04:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by HH72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and get a lawyer before you do anything else..
2006-10-23 04:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to do it on your own. Get a lawyer to represent YOUR interests
And try to get some counseling.
2006-10-23 04:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by BigD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋