and dont know how to tell the dady
2006-10-23 04:38:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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Call the Carpenter in Carver. He can nail everything down and has a working screw gun (well he borrows one) He solves these kinda things every day.
2006-10-23 19:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by buddiessister 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is it with teens who have unprotected sex and don't think about the consequences. You meant to say that you don't know how to tell the boy that provided the sperm to make the baby in you. Being a sperm provider doesn't make a father, and being able to carry a baby to term doesn't make a mother. How are you going to take care of an infant when someone has to take care of you? What do you mean that you are on your sister's side, side of what? You should have been concentrating on getting all of the education that is available to you instead of finding out what married couples do.
2006-10-23 11:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you do not say if you want or not this baby.
If yes do not live people you love to "discover" it because of your body changes. Tell them right now. It is not a crime.
If not depending on how long you are pregnant you can consider an abortion but I think because of your age you will need your parents or legal responsives to be noticed about.
2006-10-23 11:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Amélie Lapaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't hide it forever.........you need to tell your mother and father so you can get proper medical care......my sister didn;t tell anyone untill she was at the hospital giving birth and now she had a 13 year old severely handicapped child that will never be without assistance, then you can ask your parents to be with you when you tell the baby's daddy. I am so saddened by this, I hope you find the strength and courage to do the right thing for the baby..............put this child's needs before yours...............and next time you have sex use a rubber............or better yet DON"T
2006-10-23 11:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to find someone u can trust who is an adult & tell them!..u need to go to the doctor so u and the baby can be healthy..i know it's hard but it's something u have to do ..the moment you had sex and got pregnant you became an instant adult!...at 15 you now have to start thinking of your baby & stop thinking of your self,that sounds harsh but i know how u feel i had my son when i was 14 ...u have to do what u have to do & u need to get to a doctor!...as for the dad tell him or dont its up to you if he is as young as you then he is prob, not going to care thats just how most guys r they help make the baby then they leave u with the cost & the care of it!...if he is way older than u your parents should have him arrested!...if u want to talk to me about it feel free to e-mail me!....crystal_leann2001@yahoo.com
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
2006-10-23 11:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im sure you can keep it hidden when you gain the 25-35lbs thats needed during the pregnancy. tell your parents, say buh bye to the daddy because I doubt hes going to stay around for this. Your parents legally from what i understand cannot make you keep the baby or abort the baby or put it up for adoption unless its what you want to do.
you sister is an idiot by the way. in order for you to properly take care of this kid you're going intg to have to tell some one.
2006-10-23 11:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie.. 15 is young to have a baby.. i had my first when i was 19 and it was hard.. even though me and my daughters father was still together till she was 2..
i think you need to talk to the guy who got you pregnante and let him know.. if this was just a one night stand then he's prob not gonna have too much to do with the baby if he has anything.. of course depending on how his morals are.. he still needs to know.. and you need to really sit down and think about what you are going to do.. its really hard.. but whatever decision u make it will be with you for the rest of your life.. abortion, adoption or giving birth.. Good luck..
2006-10-23 11:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by SweetOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to inform everyone that is involved as soon as possible - stress on the baby is a big factor - and you have more options now then you will have later - good luck - I will be praying for you and your child!@
2006-10-23 11:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't say you have screwed up your life up completely, because one day your going to have a beautiful child who you will love and cherish forever.
But i will say you have screwed up the best years of your life.
and the sick thing is, you can't say you was never warned.
Nice life!!
2006-10-23 12:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to go you just screwed up your life. Dumb A$$
2006-10-23 12:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋