I'm friends with a female who is involved with someone else but still wants me around we are involved sexually, but on the other hand we have every aspect of a normal friendship. The problem is every other day my feelings resurface and I don't know what I should do? Why do you think she wants me around, me and her partner are two totally different types of people. Have you ever been in this situation, how did it end?
2006-10-23 04:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is soooo totally using you! You need to let her go. Unless you are enjoying the friend with benefits things. If you can continue to just have sex with no strings attached, which it doesn't sound like it, then keep on doing what you are doing. If not, dump her, forget her and move on to a real friend who cares about you and your feelings.
2006-10-23 04:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does really like you, even if just as friends, but maybe she doesnt think your boy friend/husband material and so then all you are good for is sex....Also maybe she just enjoys the game of cheating... some women are evil like that... Just lie, and say "i dont want to just be having sex anymore," something like that. but if shes like "ok" then you didnt mean to much more to her.. and if shes more like "why, whats wrong" be honest, she does care,,, Ive been in this situation a few times and the other guy was just a play toy when i had nothing better to do.. But your may not be the same situation.. Just talk to her.. all mine talked to me, i was honest. good luck.
2006-10-23 11:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in this situation but I think you need to tell her that she needs to choose between you and this other guy. If she doesn't want to choose, she's obviously keeping you around for sex.
2006-10-23 11:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend wants to have her cake and eat it too...it sounds like you need to sit down and seriously consider what you are getting from your relationship with this person and if it is worth being used. Best of luck...
2006-10-23 11:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does that because you let her she knows that when she's feeling kinda hot then she can come to you for a good time. Alls she is doin is playin with your emotions.
2006-10-23 11:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thang6931 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that your not a object and that you are not getting put in the middle ...you are her back up basically...
2006-10-23 11:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋