I seem to never be able to finish any task I started but to my surprise i will be graduating medical school but I really dont want to follow with it as well. I dont like to follow through with any of my relationships, hobbies, shool etc. What should I do and why? Im trying to
2006-10-23 04:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by nodrama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds as if you should go to a therapist and find out why you are afraid of success and want to sabotage yourself. It might be a lack of self-esteem or something else from your past that is preventing you from completing goals. Good luck!
2006-10-23 04:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have some sort of attention disorder. This is something I have struggled with at times in my life as well. Free will man you can do whatever it is that you want, but remember, its your choice. Try to think things through to completion, ie: what will you do without your medical degree? Try to visualize the outcomes of actions or non-actions before you make a decesion.
2006-10-23 11:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bryce I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. What I do is take breaks a lot like vacations and I also give myself rewards for not breaking plans or commitments it also helps to write things down and check things off your list once you get them done it will make you feel better. Make a list of short term goals and long term goals and hang them on your fridge to remind you what you need to do.
2006-10-23 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have some reason to not follow through. Some time in therapy might help, but also not procrastinating. Frankly, I'm impressed you've made it this far in school with what your question is about.
2006-10-23 11:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like quite a problem, talking with a therapist could help you. Good luck.
2006-10-23 11:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that goes back to your childhood. You need help, go and get counseling, it will be worth your while. And you will be free, from so many things holding you back all of your life!
2006-10-23 11:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure u r not going to follow up this questions by looking at answers . i bet u've already forgotten about it. if not, i suggest that since u have lack of ability to follow through, don't take up golf.
2006-10-23 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by thehelper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of tasks; cross them off as you do them. Make it into a sort of game.
2006-10-23 11:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Professional help would be my suggestion. I believe this is something that stems from your past and it is somethign you need to get over.
2006-10-23 11:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋