hi im a 24 yr old inexperience woman, soon to be getting married.. i wanna know how would other guys feel and think, when u r marrying a virgin woman. (but not just an ordinary woman but a woman that u love so much..)
my fiance says that hes very happy and loves me so much and more knowing that i huv saved myself for him.. :) (tho also said that it doesnt matter if am or not, he will still love me.., me saving it, is just a bonus)
2006-10-23 04:09:01 · 19 answers · asked by kenshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that if your partner is kind and polite it will all be very good. I got married virgin and was humiliated for my inexperience on bed by my husband, and it was traumatizing to say the least. Neverthless, I am glad I am an exception. Judging by my sister and close friends experiences, the man usually feels honored and find it thrilling to be the first one. The way you say it, it is your case. If he says it 'doesnt matter' I would be a little concerned but since he says it is a bonus, it is a good signal.
2006-10-23 04:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want our spouses to be our one and only, but the reality is we also want to explore before we settle down.
Ask yourself why he thinks its good. Is it because he did not save himself and he wish he did ? Or is it the fact he was able to fool around as much as he wanted during his youth and now get the added benefit of a virgin for a wife?
Remember, many men fool around with the easy women and marry the virgins.
2006-10-23 04:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's such an awesome thing! Virginity at marriage is not a common thing anymore. I'm proud of you. There's no need to study up on what men want. Your fiance wants you, and that's it! He'll tell you what he likes. Congrats on getting married, and I'm sure that your special night will be fantastic! :)
2006-10-23 04:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on getting married. Just let nature take it's course. I was a virgin bride too. I was 28 when I got married. I let my husband take the lead. He taught me. Allow him to teach you to make love. And enjoy and don't worry about it!
2006-10-23 04:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantastic my wife was a virgin before she met me and hey its a sacred thing but make sure that you doing this for yourself and not your fiance because if down the road you regret it and want to experience new sexual partners then it might of been a bad choice so think about it seriously. my wife said that she felt sometimes that she wouldn't meet my standards until i told her it didn't matter and that she was the one i chose so she must be doing something right.
2006-10-23 04:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by porra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
happy
he is telling you the truth.
the only problem there is with your situation is if you spend the next ten years wondering if he is any good because you have nothing to compare him to.
the sex will be good and you will learn together. do not rent a porn unless both of you are into that sort of thing(you are not I'm sure.)
do not expect "movie sex" for a few years
good luck and congratulations
2006-10-23 04:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by blackrealty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do whatever you think will make him feel good and happy, being a virgin is enough to make most men happy, because they know you did do that stuff to someone else thats why it is so good..... you will do fine, just have fun.
2006-10-23 04:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by porsha226 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would be great, but i hope hes got some experience or itll be a while before the sex gets real good.
2006-10-23 04:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like your groom to be said, it would be an awesome bonus.
2006-10-23 04:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about being inexperienced we all was at one time...you will figure that out day to day....you are so fortunate to be a virgin and be able to keep that for you and him only...your blessed..
2006-10-23 04:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋