i enjoy making love to my husband he is not interested anymore.
2006-10-23 04:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by holla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is a part of intimacy that couples share. Ask him why he is not interested. Sex is not the most important thing but it is part of a relationship. I am sorry but I would take it as a red flag. Something is going on, and you need to find out what. Maybe it is something simple. Maybe you just need to seduce him, make it fun, different and if that doesn't work, maybe he is impotent or cheating on you.
2006-10-23 04:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it very important in a marriage to make love. If your hubby isn't interested anymore, then you need to talk to him. There could be a number of reasons, so to not to assume the worst. Maybe he is just stressed out about work or something. You should try new things to get him in bed. Maybe you could plan a really romantic dinner with candles, music and rose pedals. Just try to spice things up to get him more interested.
2006-10-23 04:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and that i've got been married close to to 12 years now. in the beginning up we had intercourse daily (for greater or less 3 months), then we had it as quickly as a week for greater or less 3 months, then interior the subsequent twelve months we had intercourse two times. We now now no longer have intercourse ('make love') yet we are very luckily married to one yet another, neither persons could ever cheat or maybe prefer to cheat. we've well being issues that make having intercourse risky for us, yet we stopped having intercourse till now we began having those well being issues. we are relatively intimate with one yet another in spite of the undeniable fact that, even bodily intimate, we merely don't have intercourse. Why? we are the two Virgo, and the two extremely do no longer basically like the 'mess' or the 'smell' no rely how 'stable' the delight may be. it extremely is no longer mandatory to have intercourse (make love) in a competent dating, yet you may desire to make valuable that your spouse is interior a similar place you're approximately that, yet whilst she is of a similar opinion with you, then it extremely is super.
2016-11-25 00:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by cavallo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very important part of a healthy marriage. Try to spice things up with toys, lingerie, ravage him when he doesn't expect it. I hate to say it, but, have you put on weight? He should love you regardless of what you look like, blah blah blah. BUT, men are very visual creatures, maybe it's time to hit the gym and start a nutrition program. Plus, that will make you feel sexier, and more confident, and those are two very attractive traits.
2006-10-23 04:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What's the problem? What red blooded american man doesn't want to make love to his wife? Are there any red flags, is he getting his loving elsewhere and he doesn't have enough energy to fake it with you? Check out the situation, and if everything is on the up and up, you need to go into your girly bag of tricks and become and instant porno star for your man and let him have his way with you!
2006-10-23 04:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very important I feel. This must be going into epidemic for woman to be getting husbands that don't want to make love.
I'm there too so I know how you feel. I'm not going to live like this forever though.
2006-10-23 04:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying asking yourself this, does he have physical sexual problems.If he does maybe hes embarrassed to share then with u even though u are his wife 'u know men' if that's not the problem maybe hes getting his business fixed somewhere else. Sooner than later u will know the truth use what u got its called feminine instinct
2006-10-23 04:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by maxine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is essential I think !! The physical aspect of a marriage is just as important as everything else. It is one way of showing your spouse how much they mean to you.
2006-10-23 06:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very important.
Either he is not interested, he is doing it with someone else or something in his life has changed for him to lose interest (job, etc)
2006-10-23 04:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost interest myself when my wife gained a lot of weight, didn't stop loving her, but i did lose interest in the act of making love....is that your issue also?
2006-10-23 04:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋