I really want to change..and for myself. I've always been so locked up and not socialising and so boring and i really wanna change i want to be different. I want to start being exciting and nice and girlie i've had enough of myself. I'm always bored. I wanna brake the rules and do crazy stuff. How can i change? How can i get close to people? How can i make new friends? plz help...
2006-10-23 03:56:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i use to b just like you. then i realized i wanted to change too. the way i did it was everutime i was in a room wit someone else i would always smile at them and say hi and that helped me come out of my shell. and then it bcame ez er and ez er to talk and now you cant get me to shut up
2006-10-23 04:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by yourgirl1517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends first on how old you are...are you over 18?...over 21?...if so you can try taking a friend and going to a dance club or a nice bar or something....(not my personal favorite way to meet people, but hey)
Try the Yahoo personals...or another site like that...you can chat with great people, get to know them, and then if you think you are ready, you can meet them face to face...(in a public place of course)...
Meeting people is easy...just make eye contact and smile...people are drawn to that kinda thing...I have met people in the movie theater, the grocery store, the movie rental place, the mall...you just have to be confident...and if you see someone that you like...go talk to them first :)...that would definitely be crazy and break the rules right? :)...hope this helps and good luck in the new you :)
2006-10-23 11:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Luv_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to read books on improving your self, self esteem, and changing your image. You can also get the tapes. You may find this at the library. Their is too much to do for anyone to be bored.Their is no need to do crazy stuff, at this stage in your life,their is no need to get into any thing that you are going to regret later. You can join class or a club, so you can meet people.
2006-10-23 11:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going out more , enjoy some night life , or try the local bar with a friend !
2006-10-23 11:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋