me and my boyfriend has been going out for three months now but we broken up because over the weekend he invited me to him & his roomate apartment but i told him no. I suggested that he come over on campus at my school & he said no!! because he hated my school so i kept asking him to come more then 20 times. i even broke out into tears. he just kept saying no. so i got really mad i told him to never call me again. everysince that night he have not called me. i have been sending him text messageing saying im sorry and i have been calling him back to back. its like i cant stop thinking about him i miss him. tears come to my eyes when i think of him. and i still where his ring that has his name on it. i want to get over him like he has already gotten over me.please help me please tell me what should i do?
2006-10-23 03:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go out with your friends. don't let your mind be empty. if it is empty, expect his memory to get into it.
2006-10-23 03:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that there is somebody out there that is better for you. That you deserve better. Feel the pain, cry, do everything in your power to not call, text message or think about him. He has given you every indication that he really was not feeling you like that, because if he was he would have been with you. Keep your head up girl. This is part of life people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Learn from this experience. And keep saying to yourself that this too shall pass. It hurts now but believe me it will get better.
2006-10-23 04:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for a little bit. Give him his space to either realize he still has feelings for you and wants you back because he misses you or he realizes he doesnt have feelings for you. If you keep bugging him then he will keep ingoring you longer. He may eventually want to talk to you and try to work things out. In the mean time go out with your friends and focus on your school work. Take the ring off and hide any pictures you have of him because that will make you hurt even more. Just give your heart time and keep yourself occupied so you wont stop and think about him. And when he does call be strong and dont beg for him back and cry. Try to play hard to get a little bit and dont let him hear your sadness and hurting when you finally talk to him. so just give him time! Good Luck!!
2006-10-23 04:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I doubt he has gotten over you all ready maybe he just wants you to play with the cards you delt yourself..back off a little bit give him a little breathing room go a couple of days wt out calling or texting and then try to call him once ...then if no response then move on ...you will need to start by returning his ring to him ,get rid of the things that remind you of him to start healing ...take your time and do not rush right into the arms of another ,GOOD LUCK
2006-10-23 04:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH...sweetie...listen...there must have been something wrong in the relationship ( from his side anyway!) for it to be OVER like that! You were only together for a few months...and I know you THOUGHT you were in love with him...but another guy will come along...one that likes you, where you live, what you have or DON'T have...
Guys are a dime a dozen...I'd personally like to find the guy supplying the dimes and thank him!!!
IF I had stayed in a few of my PAST relationships...I'd be SOOOO miserable!!! Just be glad that you can start to heal and move on...He didn't care about how YOU felt...and that's just NOT a relationship...He was controlling you...Don't EVER let a man do that to you!!! Be strong!!
2006-10-23 04:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take this offensively but you sound desperate as hell. you told him not to call you so why are you trippin? you sound obessive. why are you crying about absolutely nothing. you basically broke up with him you need to give him his stuff back. stop calling him like you are dying, because you arent. you life is not over because he doesnt want to talk to you. girl find someone else to talk to. Seriously get the hell over it, you made that bed now you need to pull the covers over your head and get really comfortable
2006-10-23 07:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by yaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him again
cry if you have to but don't call again
if he calls you, apologize politely - once - without crying
then let it go and move on
if he doesn't call you, cry as much as you want for a day
then dry your tears and go about your business
you will feel rotten for awhile, but keep on living and it will get easier
2006-10-23 04:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of the episode as a learning experience
2006-10-23 04:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out to lunch with your best friend....check out all the cute guys and forget about him. You've got to think about why he wanted "you" to come to his house.....Seems pretty obvious to me. That's why he didn't want to go to your school. Get it?
You'll be fine. You're just sad for a moment, trust me...someone else will come along and you'll do fine.
good luck ! ! !
2006-10-23 04:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him to never call you again and you got your wish.
Get over it and learn not to say things that you don't mean.
He's moved on and you need to do the same.
2006-10-23 04:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't mean to sound harsh honey but i think the reason for him not going over to your campus is because he's probably seeing more of the other girls there besides you!.....move on sweetheart......go out with your friends more and get over him
goodluck
2006-10-23 04:03:47 · answer #11 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋