hes ready for their relationship to get serious they have been together for 3 years should she do it? (hes 18 teen now)
2006-10-23 03:51:38 · 30 answers · asked by Beunikia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
doesnt matter how long you have been with someone. You have to be mentally and financially prepared for something that big. Dont do it. Tell him he needs to wait!
2006-10-23 03:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. If you are not ready and he is ready, then he can go find himself someone else to have a baby with. Are you finished with school? Have you lived your life and done everything that you wanted to do? Are you ready to give up your freedom and be chained to a baby for the next 18 or more years? Are you ready to be extremely tired all the time, getting little sleep, or devoting all of your time, energy, and money towards a baby/child? Have you throughly though through what it REALLY takes to have a baby? Do you realize that the woman (by default...in most cases) does most if not all of the work in regards to children? If you have answered no to at least two or three of these questions then you are not by any means ready to have a baby. If he is that desperate to have a child (and to end your freedome so that you can be subservient to him) then by all means give him an ultimatim. He needs to impregnate someone else if he is so ready to get 'serious.'
2006-10-23 11:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way..Run for the hills. Some guys get a kick out of getting a girl pregnant just to say they have a baby. If he was really ready for a baby he would know you are to young to have one. Don't ruin your life. There is plenty of time to have a baby when your ready. Your not even out of school. I hope your still in school. Sounds like you already know you don't want that to happen. If you were ready you wouldn't ask people what you should do. Go with your gut and don't do it. If he gets mad that's more indication that you should NOT have a child with him. Besides you won't have all the fun you can have if your strapped with a baby. You lose your friends because they don't want to hang around a girl with a baby. There are a thousand reasons not to get pregnant. I know-been there done that!!
2006-10-23 11:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly dont do it! Your not ready to undergo that kind of commitment, and if he thinks that hes ready, he should think again. No 18 year old boy can be responsible enough to have a kid. There is no reason why you could be either. You should consider how you would even support a baby at your age. what if he leaves you then youll have to do it all on your own. This is not a good idea and i sure a lot of other people agree.
2006-10-23 12:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Even 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 35 and still too young for children!
My two step daughters had babies at 16 and life was over for them! Mother hood begins and doesn't stop! They are stuggeling to make ends meet and keep up with life and feel cheated that they did not get to live their life and do other things! Including finishing high school and now trying to find job is very hard for them. The other step daughter had her first child at age 18 and now she is 22 and having her second child, life again is over and all of them are having a very hard time with the decission they have made! 15 is too young and being parents is not what is looks like on T.V. take a class on it and go work in a day care center for about two years and then tell me if you still want babies at 15! While your changing diapers worried about how you will afford to buy the next packet of them and how you will buy the baby food your friends will be buying concert tickets and going to the beach and to parties and living life at the age they should be; trying to be a parent while still a child yourself is a risking game to play with your life not to mention an inocent child's life, at age 15 you are just now learning common sence and it sounds like you need to learn a lot more before you even think of having children! If you have no common sence how will you teach your child common sence? You know nothing about it and no child at age 15 is ready to be a parent, many mistakes will be made, wait till' you are older and wiser! Please!!!
2006-10-23 11:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not have a baby at 15!!!!!!!!!!! That is absolutely crazy! How can you take care of this baby? DO you have a job, does he have a job and I am talking about making at least $30,000 a year with MEDICAL BENEFITS!! Do you have that? Do you know what its like to go to the movies whenever you want, dancing, rollerblading, biking, or maybe travel, have you ever travelled anywhere but your hometown? Do you think about college, going away and living on your own? Do you know that when you have a baby your life is put on hold, a good mother takes all her energy and puts it into raising her child and showing them the world and all the things they can learn and see. Its a sacrifice and a huge job - a job I love more than life itself - but its still a job and its by no means easy. Sometimes you have to go without so that your child can have things. If you don't work and he doesn't work are you willing to give up eating so that your child can eat? Would you be willing to give up going to see a concert so that your child can go to the zoo? Girl what are you thinking!!! Do you have parents or guardians you can talk to? I really need you think to talk to them and get away from this BOY! There will be plenty more dates you are still young, enjoy life don't tie yourself down to having a baby at 15!! God Bless!! Be smart!!
2006-10-23 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this cant be a serious question. Your 15 he is 18 all he wants is sex if your not already giving it to him. You are way to young to even think about having a baby. wait till your atleast 25 yrs old. U must be from the south or something cuz any person in thier right mind knows that answer to this. TELL HIM HELL NO!
2006-10-23 10:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off you have to wonder are you ready to take the responsibilty to have a baby an most guys at that age unless there totally serious about it once you have the baby you wont see them anymore .Another thing do you think you can handle it at that age because it means not being able to go out with friends,or anywhere because you have a baby to care for all im saying is think long and hard about it but i will tell you something my mother tells me about teens having babies is how can the y raise a baby when there still a baby themselves so yea think about it.
2006-10-23 10:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they both should grow up!
Having a child does not make a relationship serious - just seriously restricts it.
Aside from the fact one party is a minor and he would be committing an offence by even having sexual contact with the girl, he is exhibiting breathtaking naivety and I would suggest a mental age less than that of the girl's.
2006-10-23 10:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by steven b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha! Tell that 15 year old that she is STUPID! Then, go tell the 18 year old that he is STUPID. Place them both in an actual situation with children and see how long they can last. Babies are a much bigger job than anyone anticipates. I'm 25 years old and I'm still not ready!
Grow up, you guys are still babies yourselves.
2006-10-23 10:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!!!!!! Seriously. Don't fall for it. If this guy wants to knock up a kid then he's got issues. Please use your brain and don't let this schmuck influence you. Finish high school, go to college, get a good job and save up money and have a baby with someone who respects and loves you. Wait until you are older. Don't drag another baby in to the world and ruin it's life. Stop the cycle of teen pregnancy.
2006-10-23 10:57:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋