ok i trust my boygriend and i expect him to trust me to wit his friends but when he is around my friend they shw signs of firtations and emotions by always playin around or smilin at each othe r and even calln each other all the time what should i do souls i leave it alone or break up wit him?
2006-10-23 03:51:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave it alone
2006-10-23 03:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your boyfriend and your friend are messing around, then perhaps you should make a "fake" plan to leave the two of them alone. Tell your boyfriend that you have something to do and make sure your friend is at your place at that time. Take a drive and give them some time to be alone so they can start if there is anything really going on. Go back without notice and see what happens. You can also set up your webcam if you have one to video the room while you are away. I used to use my webcam on my windows xp to spy on my kids while I was at work, When I got home I would review the video. You can also put a mini recorder somewhere in your house and record the conversations.
Don't get rid of your boyfriend until you have some proof, it seems your heart is in the relationship. One of my quotes is when in doubt check it out. I hope there is nothing going on for your sake, perhaps you are just feeling insecure... but don't fall on to sleep on your inutition (sp).
I hope things go well and you feel more confident after you find out nothing. I am hoping your friend is just a flirt, but if that is the case confront her afterwards and let her know it makes you uncomfortable. Keep in mind though that women feed on other females insecurity.
2006-10-23 10:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just the way they get along. But it's not the right way because they are both putting you in a bad position where you might have to get rid of both of them. You never know. If she was your real friend, then she would not be doing what she is doing. Why don't you talk to both of them and see what they say, but talk to them at different times. Good Luck. Remember, guys are like nickles and dimes in your pocket. They are loose change. Loose change is everywhere on the street.
2006-10-23 11:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly girl he crossed the line by calling her. Flirting and smiling at her in front of you or while your in the room isnt major cause your there and they cant do anything while you there, but he took it further and called her probably while you were not around and that just isnt right at all. sounds like you are really worried about this and you shouldnt be he is just another dude girl and you could do so much better than having to worry about your dude and your firend all the time.
2006-10-23 11:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are kids going to learn to spell or use the Yahoo Check Spelling. Perhaps he will go to college and become a high school English teacher. Therefore, you (i) souls leave them alone AND break up wit him.
2006-10-23 10:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by fran t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him & your friend & find out what is going on if anything. Do they go places alone together?? Thats when to get really suspisious. Has he changed the way he treats you around her?? that would definetly be a good sign that there is something going on. Take care
2006-10-23 10:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have proof before you accuse them, you could lose both your bf and your friend!
Maybe they just get along well - if thats the case be glad, isn't that what all us girls want: for our boyfriends and our bestfriend to get along?
I had a friend who thought I was flirting with her bf just because at times we would just laugh together and have fun - turned out he was playing her with someone else!
So just be certain before you ruin something wonderfull
2006-10-23 10:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Bianca A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you put the question out there? The next time you are all together and you feel they are flirting, be direct and ask the hard questions!!! Whats the worst that can happen, you find out the truth?
2006-10-23 10:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just leave it alone for the time being. Some people are just like that....But, keep the suspicion you hold in the back of your head.
2006-10-23 10:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and stop calling her your best-friend. A friend in general wouldn't be calling YOUR boyfriend. Ditch them both and find someone who is worth your time and attention.
2006-10-23 10:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them both and ask if anything is going on if you still feel uncomfortable after you talk to them, maybe you should just cut it off.
2006-10-23 10:53:47 · answer #11 · answered by MOVING 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋