2006-10-23 03:47:47 · 14 answers · asked by Judy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you trust them let them use it don't me greedy!...if you don't trust them then just try to nicely tell them that you don't feel comfortable loaning it out to any one!...DON'T LIE TO THEM..if they find out & there is a big chance they will,then feelings will be hurt worse than if you just tell the truth and it is sure to cause problems,no family needs that kind of drama!
2006-10-23 03:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 12:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by starich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best you make that house on chargeable basis by you will get an income an side business for you and for relatives by the time it is free they keep on taking the things granted but when it cimes for money they would think many times.
2006-10-23 03:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by VKS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very simple, if they are really close, then you can't say no, but if they are the kind that are never around, make something up, like you would have to be there in order to use, and you have no time at the moment, or that there are some renovations, happening at the time, after a while they will stop asking, and that way you never said no.
2006-10-23 03:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by psychmac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them no. Just because they are family (or related by DNA) doesn't mean that there is free reign. If you dont want them using your vacation home tell them no.
2006-10-23 04:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you have rented it out, and can't afford to give it up for free, or can't see making someone who needs a home to live in leave for leisure time. You have a set agreement for when you come and don't want to inconvienance them anymore by always making them leave.
2006-10-23 03:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have them stay there tell them it will be occupied that week(end) or if you do want them to stay there explain that some rules apply and any expense to clean/restock items used.
2006-10-23 03:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you don't want them to go there? Either say you're sorry but you need to charge - it might put them off!! Or perhaps you could say there is already someone staying there when they want to visit? Or just be truthful if you don't want them there...
2006-10-23 03:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont want them to then tell them no. You have to be straight foward with people or they will use you for what you have. And yes family will do it too.
2006-10-23 03:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Charge them outrageous rates to stay there. Either they'll pay it or won't be asking again.
2006-10-23 03:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋