I'm afraid my 23yr old bf is infertile, he had a lump in his testicles and was removed by an operation now having around 20 stitches or more when he was only 16 yrs old. I don't know what exactly the operation was and when I asked him he looks confused and doesn't tell me what is was except describing what it looked like. Now being almost 3yrs together and sexually active he does ejaculate inside me after ovulation or during my period and he doesn't seem afraid of getting me pregnant even though I made him know that I do not want to get pregnant at this age. A couple of times he even mentioned what about having problems having children, what will I do, will I leave him or not. Can anyone help me I am worried about this operation I am afraid he may be infertile.
2006-10-23 03:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you ought to be worried about somebody that comes inside you when you tell them you dont want to get pregnant.
2006-10-23 03:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by David B 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what does it matter if he can not have children.if you love him except him for what he is not for what he can or can not do.if you decide you want children someday you can all ways adopt they need some one to love them and to take care of them.think about it ok.lots of luck.talk to him.he may fill like he is less of a man because he can not have children and fills bad about it.be gentle and kind to him and let him know that it does not matter to you if he can not give you a baby.and you love him anyway .i hope i help you i my self can not have any children and it hurt me for many years now that i am 47 my life if full of children .my husband had a daughter from a another marriage and i help to raise her now i have 3 beautiful grandchildren
2006-10-23 11:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by ann p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him. If you are a suppost to make a baby togeather, then it will happen. But keep in mind there is also adoption. I would get the truth out of him. He might not really want you to know because he does not want to loose you over kids.
2006-10-23 10:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be more concerned that he doesn't take any precautions when you've told him you don't want to get pregnant. I hope YOU are using something! He's not very considerate, and you are at risk of STD's AND pregnancy.
2006-10-23 10:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take him to the a clinic or something and they will be able to tell him if he is in fact infertile or not.....if he is fertile they will be able to tell him how fertile he is....they did that for my husband.....and tell him he wont get any anymore if he doesnt respect your wishes that should help you with your problem there....
2006-10-23 10:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by hot12flirt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
without knowing through a sperm count test, he doesn't know and neither do you, if he is fertile. Don't take chances..you need to practice birthcontrol (pills, patch - whatever) and have him wear a condom... does STD mean anything to you??
2006-10-23 10:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by tampico 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get him to go to a doctor and they will give him a thorough examination.
2006-10-23 10:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should also be concercend about catching a disease, you shouldn't have unprotected sex.
2006-10-23 10:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Gandalf the Grey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋