things have gotten so messed up and tangled that you just dont know which way is up anymore.
2006-10-23 03:44:21 · 14 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take time out to yourself. Do some soul searching. Sit down with your self to see where things went wrong and if they will continue. Turn off the phone. Like heather headly say ME TIME.
2006-10-23 03:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well......This is a hard one. However, if you both truly love each other and are willing to make some changes. (Both of you!)
The only choice you have is to sit down and talk openly and honestly with each other about it. What happened. How it happened. How it made you both feel. Why it worked or why it didn't work for the two of you.
You will have to jointly make decisions you can both live with and decide "The past is the past" and look forward to the future together and try not to make the same messes again.
Best of luck to you. This is a journey you can make successfully if BOTH of your hearts are in it. It will be hard but you may just be a better, happier couple because of it.
2006-10-23 10:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Give some time. Some of the tangles may fall out.
2006-10-23 10:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You take a step back, go away from that person for a while and try to see the big picture. We all need space and time to think clearly and until you do that, you're going to continue to feel this way. Keep in mind too that if you are unhappy, that needs to change. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 10:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love things will untangle themselves, if it's not true love, it just sounds like a mess. Figure it out before it's too late to do anything.
2006-10-23 11:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start over........you have top forget whatever happens in the past that's the only way....and he has to do the same too
2006-10-23 10:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breathe, accept reality, and just wait it out. Hopefully everything will work out somehow.
2006-10-23 11:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from the situation and give yourself peace of mind.
2006-10-23 10:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step back, take another look at it and see where you need to go from here to get to where you want to be....
2006-10-23 10:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk openly and honestly together, and start untying the knots.
2006-10-23 10:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋