every time i'm on my own i get depressed and worried, why is this?
2006-10-23 03:34:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
there could be a number of reasons
1. u dont like your own company
2. u feel insecure
3. we all think too much when we are on our own
4. u dont like yourself
5 people make u feel good about yourself but u dont.
me...its the other way round. its so noisey at home because i have three teenaged boys so when i go to work its peaceful.
try to like yourself- if u cant do that why not put the radio on for some background noise.
2006-10-23 07:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by shariwharton 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Hate Being Alone
2016-11-11 04:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can get like that if I'm on my own too long. If you're an over-analyzer like me (it is a Libran trait), then too much time alone can leave you obsessing over ridiculous stuff and getting nervous over equally ridiculous stuff. Honestly, I've been there. Do something to keep yourself occupied when you're alone, whether it's reading a book, watching a favourite movie, writing, painting your nails, catching up on phone calls...
Rest assured, you're not weird, though. It's very common. People just don't talk about it that much -- certainly not face to face, which is what makes Yahoo Answers so good :)
2006-10-23 04:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by jess0910 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a neurotypical... You're genetically inferior to people on the autistic spectrum like myself who can quite contendedly be alone for weeks at a time. ^_^
Don't fret it though. You can't help it.
Most people are neurotypical... and require the company of others to reassure themselves of their own worth.... or at least to distract them from depressing thoughts. Humans by default are a very social species... and some individuals are moreso than others. That would be why...
As for what you can do about it.... Go outside, find someone random and try striking up conversation with them. It might seem weird to just talk to random strangers, but generally speaking some people will appreciate it, and you might make new friends that way. Its an easy way not to be alone as much.
If however you can't find anyone decent to talk to in person, then phone friends up... or spend more time on social websites where you can converse with people and not concentrate so much on being alone.
Seriously... its not that big of an issue to solve...
.... Though maybe I just say that because I live in the middle of London besides being Aspergian, and lacking people to talk to is the least of my worries.
Hang in there... ^_^
2006-10-23 03:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because you are co-dependant. You are incapable of being self-reliant and this will cause you problems even bigger as you get older. I recommend meeting this head on and simply being alone. If you cry, fine. If you throw things, fine. If you can't sit still, clean your house, take a walk, do some exercise, blast a stereo and dance around even. But learn how to be alone. Take some real time too....like 2 years off men. No serious relationships.
Good Luck! If I did it, you can too!
2006-10-23 03:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of ppl dont like being alone. Its a natural feeling. Its ok though. Maybe you need to tell a doc about it. It could be a sign of depression. Not sure, but you may want to ask a doc. I have a friend like that and she takes meds for it. Shes bipolar though.
2006-10-23 04:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a condition known as Solophobia, where you experience anxiety as a result of being able to listen to your own thoughts. I recommend using a 10-12 Inch Vibrator on your wet vagina.
That should make you appreciate your alone time.
2006-10-23 03:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Lavender 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You quite possibly don't like yourself...or your own company. And/or maybe there's an issue you aren't dealing with, and have repressed? I'd imagine it's the former though. Took me a long time to be able to live with my own company, and now it really energises me because I get drained being with others all the time. You do need to learn to 'be' with yourself.
2006-10-23 04:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by CozOfGrace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just don't feel like a whole person when your alone. Try exploring how you feel about yourself as a person. Interests that you can do on your own, such as art or reading, can help you figure out what type of person you are. Hope that helps. :)
2006-10-23 03:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by jaybikerbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am alone too. So you are not alone :)
It is normal. It means that with fatigue and loneliness, people tend to imagine more. When people imagine, they tend to focus on more negative things.
So best solution? Learn something new, make new friends, and call someone to have a chat...
2006-10-23 03:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by hespy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋