I just cannot tell her... and I've tried to tell him to pi$$ off... He won't listen...
2006-10-23 03:31:24 · 17 answers · asked by bettiewoeswoes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, what a situation to be in. Avoid him, set up a situation where your wife finds out and then you wont have told her and she will know the truth.
Either that or beat the sh*t out of him.
Your choice
2006-10-23 03:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blurb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not tell your wife? I know that it will be a hard thing to say, but imagine hoe your wife would feel if she caught her father trying to make a move on you and you said nothing? Where is your mother-in-law? Can't she supply pop's needs? He sounds like he needs some help.
2006-10-23 05:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so......what the hell? Does she (your wife) know her father is gay? Wow!!!!! I think I would tell your wife! IF you decide not to, it could back fire in your face somehow. It is always better to be honest, you just need to be really careful what you say and how you say it. Ewwwwwww!! I would not want to be in your position. Maybe you could threaten him....tell him if he doesn't stop IMMEDIATELY, you will tell her. If it still doesn't stop, you really have no choice but to be honest with your wife. Good luck!!!
2006-10-23 03:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG- you are in a bad situation. Your "wife's" father? Well, I can understand your "wife's" mother, but not the father. Unless ofcourse you and your wife are both lesbians.
You need to ignore him as much as possible.
2006-10-23 03:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rosseau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a marrage does not work without honesty ifyour father-in-law is putting the moves on you you need to tell her let her know you are not telling her to cause problems you just feel that she should know and that it is not something you want to happen and then see if she wants to confront her father together but she needs to be apprised of the situtation me and my husband were in a similar situtation where my step-mother was putting the moves on him he did not tell me and we ended up having a fight over it not because he acepted her advances but because he was trying to hide it from me and i knew it was happening and thought that he might do it because he had not told me what was happening
2006-10-23 04:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by prissymiss1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, believe me, you wife already knows about her dads strange "habits". She was brought up in a very sexually orientated house. Why so you think she want you to join a swingers club? She is bored.
2006-10-23 03:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep a tape recorder or Video camera handy so, when he comes around you can tape the conversation and give it to your wife.
2006-10-23 03:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are gonna have to say something or get proof and then tell him you will tell if it don't stop!! Good Luck!
2006-10-23 03:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by truepubwench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell him off or try him out.
2006-10-23 03:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her and let her see it that is a horrible feeling I bet...I have had it happen with the opposite though...
2006-10-23 03:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋