i went to this dating website a year ago and someone who is my superior found me there. i figured out it was him and he also knew it was me. the thing is, he has sent me two emails I haven't opened because I won't put myself in a vulnerable position but how come the guy still goes online like once per week. and i know he's not writing to other ladies. i know that if this individual were trustworthy, he would send me a private email where I can read what he has to say in peace and without him knowing whether I have actually opened the email. should I just avoid him?
we sort of like each other but I have my pride and dignity and if he really wanted to be with me, he'd send me a private email
what bothers me, though, is why he's still going online
2006-10-23 02:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know he's not looking elsewhere 'cause his info is so out of touch...
2006-10-23 03:34:47 · update #1
Well maybe his a shy person and his afraid to approach you. GO up to him or reply to the e-mail and asked him the same question you asked on here
2006-10-23 03:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by a_j2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c you have not committed your self to him therefore even though you think he's not still looking he is! You haven't promised him anything and you haven't given him anything to go on! You have no real relationship yet,so why not, whats
the big deal if you don't like it then you need to tell him how you feel and that you no longer want him going to the site. Get serious
if you want to be serious but don't get serious unless you know that is what you want... Mean time you have no say so and you can't let stuff like that bother you he is entitled to find his true love as well. Maybe you two are for eachother but you can't be playin' these games should I open his mail or not is he doing this or that? Should I avoid him well the answer is yes if you know you no longer like this guy and you want to find something different!
2006-10-23 10:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why YOU or he went there.You said he is there once a week.How do you know if you are not going there yourself? You said(i know that if this individual were trustworthy, he would send me a private email where I can read what he has to say in peace and without him knowing whether I have actually opened the email. should I just avoid him?) If you wont open email from him you dont know what he is saying.
2006-10-23 10:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like trouble honey. First if he knows its you why wouldnt he just come out and ask you out in person but of course he could be afraid and only feels comfortable in the enivorment you two made online. Go ahead and open his emails which he is obvouisly waiting for you to do. He may be scared of the face to face rejection. Read the emails see what he wants and then respond in person. Let him know afterwards if you are interested or if you think it would be better not to go there.
2006-10-23 10:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT???? He's sent you emails through the dating site, that he's subscribed to... and you think that's inappropriate? If he's someone you work with, he's very responsible for doing it that way. It can't be construed as inappropriate if the relationship developed outside of work... in an anonymous setting, and he's smart for doing it that way. It protects both his job and yours. He's only sent you 2 messages... that you haven't read or answered, and you're mad that he's still going to the dating site? Thats a bit twisted. You've done nothing to reciprocate his interest, so he's still looking for someone,....who wouldn't?? He owes you nothing.... especially since your ignoring his attempts to communicate. Give the guy a break... if you like him, stop playing junior high games and let him know. If not, mind your own business regarding his online dating activities.
2006-10-23 10:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him at work as to his intentions?
Is he fit?
Is he married?
You decide whether to take it further or not. After all why did you go on a dating site in the first place?
2006-10-23 10:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by teddie8362 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you be in school. Sounds like two 12 yr old's.
2006-10-23 11:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO Juliet he is not the one you are talking about....Wrong
2006-10-23 10:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by infinitum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt answer it....But heck, if he knows it you?????
What can ya do...
2006-10-23 10:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Pappi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋