2006-10-23 02:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
lower your expectations, this way, you have less to resent.
2006-10-23 02:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is the best I can offer.
I have had my share of bad experience with women but I don't hate women because of it. It happened mostly because I have a bad 'picker!' Lol! That was intended to be some humor.
Anyway, take it slow. Get to know as much as you can about the person before you let your feelings run away with you.
There are many fine men just as there are many fine women. One of the main things to look for is how the person treats other people. Look for some who treats others with respect and dignity.
See how they act with all others - old, young, powerful, weak, male, female, different races, different nationalities, etc.
Look for things you share in common. And by all means look for someone who has a sense of humor especially about themselves.
Good Luck.
2006-10-23 10:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are not the same, yes there are ones that seem to be sweet and caring on the outside but once you get to know them it is like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Then there are those who have an honest to goodness true loving spirit. If you are looking at men on the outside (i.e. good looks) then you are setting yourself up to get hurt. Never look at a guy for his looks to see if he is going to be a "nice" guy.
You should just be friends with guys at first and if you can let down your wall and allow your true feelings to open up you will find that most guys are not shallow, self absorbed, male chauvinist jerks.
2006-10-23 09:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by miamac49616 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually did exactly what livetall said and I ended up getting married and I have been for 9 years. Now he is leaving because it turns out he is gay. Get professional help to truly understand yourself because even if you make a list and "qualify" someone, subconsciously you may still be attracting the wrong person.
2006-10-23 09:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to date a guy that you normally would not give a second glance to - you may be choosing the wrong types of men, the bad boy type that only causes heartache - become friends first also - don't expect to fall in love rite away - take time to really get to know someone before you get fully involved.
2006-10-23 09:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Know that all creatures are made in accordance to God´s own image. Then we can appreciate each other more and find beauty and goodness in people that we meet everytime...
2006-10-23 09:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess,only men can help u do that when u find the right one.
2006-10-23 10:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by knu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being nice to everyone
2006-10-23 09:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋