Just asking a question, don't take it too personal.
2006-10-23 02:33:01 · 26 answers · asked by vandetta00 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
vendetta ... you're a moron ... but, this is a good question.
I think it's not your fault if she's married or not.
People tend to believe that you're at guilt and really the guilty one is the wife and not you.
Just rock out with your co(k out and hopefully next time you won't get stuck with a married woman ....
P.S. we missed you at the wedding!!!!
2006-10-23 02:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a married woman and i am seeing a married man on a friendly basis only. i don't think it hurts to have a friend of the opposite sex to talk to and maybe get information on relationship issues from the other genders perspective but i feel that the more intimate relationship should be put on hold so that feelings don't get hurt in the event it doesn't work out. how does she feel or is she just gaining something from you that her husband isn't giving her? Is there a possibility that you are wanting to be with her for her sex? There is a lot more to a relationship than sex. Whats to say that since you have been coming onto her as a married woman that if you were to get together that she wouldn't be worried that you would do the same to her. She needs to get her divorce first before you allow it to become more serious and if you both care about each other ALOT then you will both be willing to wait.
2006-10-23 09:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by kittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you'd be a lot smarter to wait until her marriage ends. Why put either of your reputations on the line by having her cheat on her husband. Plus if he was to find out then it would just be a reason for him to charge her with being unfaithful. And if he's a violent man could put either the woman or the man that she is cheating with lives in potential danger.
2006-10-23 09:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not qualified to say if it is 'wrong,' but if you spend any time over in YA Singles & Dating and YA Marriage & Divorce, you'll find that it rarely works for any length of time at all. Also, it carries with it myriad problems - some of which are quite unpleasant.
2006-10-23 09:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If wrong as long as she's still married. If she was legally separated and living in a different house than her husband, then its different. But if they're still living together, whether its on the rocks or not, it is wrong.
2006-10-23 09:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't dare take it personnal,but if the woman is looking outside her marriage then she is not getting the attention she needs at home or mabye the wrong kind of attention,you enter it at your own risk though,it can be dangerous to all involved,as for whether it's wrong or not-only God can judge what is in the hearts of ppl,others have no business saying what is wrong or isn't.
2006-10-23 10:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Wish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion is
I don't think it is wrong
The reason cause life is to short and
if you feel you have a connection with that person
then y not
But personally i would NEVER get married
that is just what i think
No one ever stays together for ever
Just my opinion
2006-10-23 09:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun from experience don't do it once a cheater always a cheater. I dated a man for a few months well once he left his wife we were awesome but he was cheating on me. Then I married a guy that cheated on his girlfriend to be with me and left her cuz he wanted to marry me well four days of being married he started to cheat on me.
2006-10-23 09:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing personal but, let her marriage end first, legally and completely. Then "hook up".
2006-10-23 09:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by emotional blonde 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep. If her marriage is on the rocks so bad then she needs to get a divorce! And, as for you, shame on you! What goes around...
2006-10-23 09:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋