I dont know it just seems so juvenile. Is it me or should my wife grow up?My wife is 30 years old and she plays myspace like a teen.?
2006-10-23 01:43:54 · 18 answers · asked by lightlytread 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah thats a lil too old to be getting into myspace Im 20 years old and I love it but Im pretty sure I wont in 10 years
2006-10-23 01:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by moodymouse54 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hummmm if she was playing a game on the internet, like Solitare or Scrabble ect.. on the computer would u still feel it to be juvinile ? or is it the mear fact that ur insecure and are worried of what she could possibly get involved in through myspace that is the real concern here?
To me its no more then insecurity on your part and not so much that u feel its juvenile... so u need to actually get a grasp of what ur really feeling.. Im 33.. i have myspace, only because my best friend got me into it.. and a couple of my brothers are on it, i dont use it half the time.. its mearly just there and on occassion i'll check on it.. but my husband knows about it, and is fully aware of it.. and has the passwords ect.. and has no fear of it.. why? cause he knows that im not going to cheat on him nor would i ever put myself in a position to even let that be a notion of whats happening..
So you need to find out if this is something she just enjoys and not really doing anything wrong.. (same with a chat room really).. if she's just having HARMLESS fun with it.. and isnt keeping secrets from u.. then its just jealousy on ur part and not imaturity on hers.. now if she's using it as a means to keep things from u, and she's talking with those of the opposite sex on a Personal, or intimate level, then shes not only being immature but theres definately some things wrong with ur marriage.. but u can be married, and chat online, or have different webpages ect if u handle it the correct way..
But i think u need to seriously ask urself is she actually doing something wrong? or are u just jealous of what she's doing because of either fear of what "could" happen , or just the fact that she is enjoying something that doesnt include u, or taking her attention away from u..
2006-10-23 08:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own interests. As long as she isn't doing anything that is actually wrong and she isn't spending so much time on myspace that she is neglecting her other responsibilities, their really shouldn't be a problem. I don't see this any different than 30 year old men who spend their free time playing video games. Think of it this way, she could be doing many worse things than playing on the computer.
2006-10-23 08:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK to inform you Myspace is not a game you don't play it. It is to catch up with old friends you have lost contact with. Old high school friends or even stars. Alot of famous people actually have myspace accounts as well as alot of bands local and afar. So IT IS NOT JUST FOR TEENS. It is a great site to have a conversation with someone you haven't had one with in awhile or ever.
2006-10-23 08:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by apples2oo4 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have a myspace account and use it to stay in contact with my friends and family. i made my page private so no one can view my pic and profile, we use it as a way to send each other pics and conversate with eachother at our own convience. it becomes juvenile if she is on it all day and neglects other activities to be online. but then again a lot of adults play games and chat online, and i think thats also juvenile.
2006-10-23 08:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babe my boyfriend was cheating over myspace get her email and password and check her mail!!! I bet money shes talkin to other men!!! How long have you been married? has your sex life been good? Are you guys happy together? Maybe shes getting bored of you?? Sad, man dont be dissapointed if she is but i wish you the best of luck!!!!
2006-10-23 09:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people much older that use myspace. Whats the big deal?
2006-10-23 08:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she is just looking for attention in the wrong places. Yes, she should grow up.
2006-10-23 08:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a my space and i am 30 networking and friends maybe your ther one being immature
2006-10-23 08:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by plumcouch30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing to put her down for, this may be her outlet, to relieve stress, everyone has something they like to do, this is what she likes to do. Nothing wrong with that. She could be doing worst things, than that!
2006-10-23 08:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋