Ok, this is going to sound petty BUT my friends and I have been hanging out to go to a show for months. Our friend 'Steve' said he had bought the tickets and everything was sorted. So we have all been talking about this gig and getting excited but every time we ask a question (like which day did he get tickets for, how much do we owe him etc.) He dodges the question or gives vague answers. The show is tonight (P!ATD) and it is safe to say he never bought the tickets. He has lied to us so many times saying he had them. I have even written him a text saying how disappointed I am that he lied...but true to character no reply. Is it worth losing a friend over? It's not the tickets but the deciept...we would've got our own tickets had we known earlier.
2006-10-23 01:43:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
P!ATD= Panic!At The Disco
2006-10-23 02:14:26 · update #1
If he has lied to you that much, and ignored your questions, then surely you have to ask yourself if he is a friend or not??
I certainly wouldn't expect one of my friend to treat me like that.... There are plenty more people out there that would make much better friends than him... and they would then be worthy of the title of 'friend'...
I would advise you to kick him to the kerb.... Sounds like that is where he belongs.
2006-10-23 01:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by kaz_bert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him, there is no point in having him as a good friend. The fact is that if you really enjoy Panic! At The Disco, and you really want to go, it would have been safer to have bought your own tickets, rather than get someone you don't trust to buy them. And why does he do this? Tell you that he has bought tickets, and then leave you wondering whether he has or not? Surely he doesn't sound like a reliable friend. A friend is someone who you can rely for almost anything. I can't stand someone building my hopes up to then dissapoint me with letting me down. You could obviously still have him as a friend, if you have other things in common, but in future, I would not rely on him to do important things for you. I would tell him, look I like you , but I am getting them myself, and see what happens.
2006-10-23 11:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpius 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey a true friend would have told you that he couldn't get the tickets or that he had no intentions on getting them in the first place. If he didn't want to go he should have told you and said for someone else to get the tickets. Letting him know how disappointed you are is good. I am one who is willing to give someone a second chance. If he lets you down again then he is no friend at all.
If you feel he has let you down so many times in the past then it is time to move on.
Good luck.
2006-10-23 08:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by miamac49616 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worth losing a friend over? This guy was never your friend!
Friends care about their own friends being happy. Friends don't lie to other friends. Friends make an effort to carry out their promises.
Steve couldn't be bothered to pick up the tickets he knew you needed. Steve obviously doesn't rate you very much.
Ditch Steve and move on!
2006-10-23 08:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell that you are young. No this isn't worth losing a friend over. A real friend would have bought the tickets or at least wouldn't have lied about having them in the first place. Trust me this isn't his first or last lie.
2006-10-23 08:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really wierd - has he done anything else odd? He might just have forgotten and then been too embarrassed to tell you (though if he had an IQ higher than a flea he might have realised that he would have to tell you one day!).
To be honest, if he's that unreliable, don't put yourself in that position again. Go out and have a few drinks and a laugh without worrying about it, but don't leave him in charge of arranging anything. If your friendship is strong enough, tell him quietly how upset you were, and then move on.
2006-10-23 08:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about the ticket but the deception and you've
expected more out of this,the question is why you
keep forgiven him for being dishonnest,i'm sure he
does it to every one,maybe he's scared to get attach to people
because he was so rejecting growing up
their is allways a reason why people lie even for stupid reason.
just tell him you're dissapointed in him,that's all nothing else,
that hurt's more then the calling names,and he'll know you
mean bussiness,don't trust him.
it's also a little bit of you're fault you knew what to expect
right?
take care
isabelle
2006-10-23 09:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy obviously has a problem. I dont think its worth falling out over though. I had a friend who stole from me....not just money, but a tub of drinking chocolate of all the stupid things. She said she accidently went back to her flat with the tub in her pocket, after denying it over and over again. When i did get it back it was half empty. I did tell her how disappointed i was but then we just got over it and carried on as normal.
I suggest you let him know of your disappointment and then just carry on as normal from there. Dont demand any explanations etc.
2006-10-23 08:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by heleneaustin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the point in saying he had the tickets in the first place if he didnt
he should of just told you in the first place so you could of sorted it out yourself it would have been easier and you might even have got the chance to go!
i say if you feel like it forgive him, but if you cant stand him at the minute and your angry with him just give him the silent treatment for a while lol!
2006-10-23 08:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like the kind person you don't want as a friend, I would not give him the time of day, loose him.
2006-10-23 08:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋