After sex what is the done thing to do, and does it change?
What i mean is after sex, (Without using protection), you go to the bathroom and clean up - but in the movies, they lay together passionately! What are you suppost to do!? You hardly want to be lieing there with both your happiness inside you lol!!!
2006-10-23 01:22:21 · 22 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(Also some girl said i gave everyone the thumbs down?whats that about?how do i give anyone a thumbs down?erk
2006-10-23 01:54:04 · update #1
Lay there for a bit until you recoup, then go to the bathroom, then smoke.
2006-10-23 01:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
First of all real life is not the movies, second of all protection these days is advised all the time unless you are in a committed long term relationship. So to answer your question, it depends on how you feel after sex. If you feel you need to go and clean up then do so and return to bed for that interment cuddle, if you don't feel you need to clean up enjoy the moment and change the sheets in the morning. Either way its your choice not the movies.
2006-10-23 08:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by god 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next thing you'll be doing is washing your hands after sex.
Ok so it's a little damp but not all women have to go to the bathroom after sex ! Afterall it's a perfectly natural thing and yes there may be a wet patch but I know he will be happy that both your happiness is inside of you as long as proper contreception has beeen used.
Give up the perfect life celebrate the imperfections girl and have fun.
good luck
2006-10-23 08:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
shower together or keep a towel handy besides whats the big deal over laying there a bit i mean youve allready made the mess and the best sex is hot and sweaty and all that goodness so your allready gonna have to change the sheets anyway prolly lol
2006-10-23 08:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by chester 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It totally depends on the sort of sex you have had. If its really connected then you won't rush off to clean up, but if its really fun and wild then drag him to the shower with you. Who knows round two maybe a shower screen away! You can always cuddle before you fall asleep.
2006-10-23 08:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by bonfireheat 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you like it to b wet, stay in bed! Don't know there's no why to make it lake the movies if you feel you have to clean up after sex, you just have to! But after that you can go back to bed and climb in to his arms.
2006-10-23 08:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by confussie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah hun you said it - in the movies they're not actually lying in pools of sperm etc!!!!
Ugh - you gota clean up hun - then go and cuddle afterwards! Having said that - in movies when you get to make out with the likes of tom cruise and kevin costner - I doubt Id be in such a hurry to leave the bed either!! xx
2006-10-23 08:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why bother going to the bathroom, why not clean each other up if you know what i mean!
2006-10-24 05:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bluebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay there for a second. hug onto him and kiss him every once in a while. When you get up to clean up just say i'll be right back kiss him (it doesnt completely ruin everythign then) make it quick in the bathroom and then go right back to cuddleing with him. thats what we do and its amazing!
2006-10-23 08:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
you watch too much telly luv....the movies are all fantasy...the done thing is to get up...and get washed...this is the real world..i mean who wants to lay in a pile of gunk all night...ewwww...always keep a pack of baby wipes handy too for freshness
i have noticed that you have given everyone the thumbs down so why post the question in he first place....if you think after sex is like the movies...then you need a reality check darlin....
2006-10-23 08:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's different for everybody. My boyfriend and I will lie there for a little while and have a cuddle - then we get up and use the bathroom.
2006-10-23 08:26:28 · answer #11 · answered by Ericka 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋