Okay I am still in love with my ex, and now my best friend broke up with her boyfriend of one year to go out with my ex. I know it's her business what she does and that I shouldn't care, but the problem is I still love him.What should I do. My friend and I have agreed not to let this thing break us apart. We've been friends since third grade.
2006-10-23 01:21:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She broke up with her boyfriend because A.he showed no affectioin
B.he made no attempt to spend time with her.
C. She kept telling him all about what she was feeling with him and he never tried to change a thing.
D. He failed the eleventh grade, her mom convinced her that he wouldn't amount to much.
and now I feel sorry for her ex.
2006-10-23 01:41:54 · update #1
oh sweety that musst be sooooo hard. i noe this is hard to hear but shes not ur best friend if she thinks this is okay. if im understanding u she broke up with her boy of one year to go out with ur ex?? sweety no one should ever do that. but i guess she has. its wrong. u can't keep silent about this.
u can't let people walk all over u. u need to talk to her. as hard as it is. u have to do something. think about it. for ur own good. its not fair on u. sometimes u can't have the best of both worlds. she can't expect u to be okay with this.
if she was ur best friend she should noe how u feel about this kind of stuff. and for her to break up with her boyfriend to go out with someone else..... just like that action alone there says a lot about her. she doesn't care about anyone around her but as long as she gets wat she wants everythings ok.
sweety i hope ur going to be ok coz i really do feel ur hurt and pain. u will get thru this. email me if u like. im trying to move on from my ex too. its hard but sweety we will get there sooner or later. bigger better things will come.
2006-10-23 01:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by pOppY 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 21:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing about this,is that you and your friend can still remain friends. Although you may still care about your ex-boyfriend,these fellings will pass in due time,and you will soon move on,just the way he did. To have a friendship since the 3rd grade is rare. More than anything, I'm proud of you!. You did not let a boy come between you and her. (Good Girl!)
2006-10-23 01:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude,, don't worry I m in your shoes now,,, my ex has move on,,, how old are you? if you are old enough then you shouldnt worry,, there is something else more important than having boyfriend or girlfriend,,, you should have move on... lucky you broke up with him, cause you wont be happy in the future, and your best friend should have aware about your feeling,,, I dont think she s your best friend,, if I have a friend like her,, she will drop to "just friend" level...
you will find the good one, if you are patience,, thats what everyone told me,,, dont worry, if you are looking just any bf or gf then you shouldnt worry at all there are plenty people out there...
for me I m waiting for the right one, I aint wasting my time on someone,, who is not my true love,,,,
you will find your true love eventually... don't rush...
2006-10-23 01:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Phunagex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-27 11:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my ex like 3 or 4 days ago. and my best friend is now dating him. like a day or so after me and him broke up. If she told me that they were dating then i migjt of been okay with it. or if she asked me before.
2013-11-20 01:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-06 13:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whwy did yall break up anyway? If he's your ex that means he's open game for anyone else including your best friend, you need to move on with your life and find a new man.
2006-10-23 01:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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A boyfriend is not worth losing a friend over. You are going to do what you feel is right, but you should take her feelings into consideration.
2016-04-11 03:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a best friend. Your friends exes are always off limits and everyone knows it.
2006-10-23 01:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋