I recently got back with this guy I dated when I was still in high scholl in Grad11. This guy is About 9yrs older then me he has [im not sure] about 4-5 kids. Im 18 and have a baby of my own. she is a year old. Should I start going all the way with this guy? I love him dearly. We never had sex before but I know he si dying to. What do you think I should do. Regardless of my other problems do honestly think we can work?
2006-10-23 00:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by Mabong 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This will not work on a long term basis. May be to quech the fire, you may consider falling for him, just for once, on a trial basis. Then decide, after giving a fair trial.
2006-10-23 01:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ar still young even though you already have a baby, why burden yourself with other womens babies. What you need to do is get out and enjoy your life and leave this man alone stay his friend but don't sleep with him because it will only complicate things. You need to find someone closer to your age that is willing to accept your baby also, and that you can grow with. This man is too old for you you are still very young and I don't think that he will be around long after he gets you in the bed then you will be heart broken, so avoid all of the problems that could happen once you sleep with himm and DON'T DO IT....Get out and enjoy your youth as much as possible.
2006-10-23 00:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be in the past. Move on and find a man wholl love you. Theres more to all this so I can't really give you a good answer. Sex before marriage is a bad thing, look where you are now. Do you really want any children with him to be 5-6 7 and 8? Find a man who's willing to wait till marriage to sleep with you.
2006-10-23 00:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Triple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question.. Does he take care of his 4 or 5 kids? that will let you know if he may take care of you and yours..Think before you leap in for a good time.Are the kids by the same woman? Are his kids by different women, if so >> that means he doesn't like to wear condoms and he doesn't mind being an hiv canidate. Sounds like he may be a male ho, who will give it up to any one. Get your mind off him and his future and focus on yours for you and your child
2006-10-23 01:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by jessica jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi friend,
If u love him and if he also loves u then u can go ahead,but be sure that he will take care of u and ur baby until his death,if ur not sure then u needn't proceed.Best of luck my friend.
2006-10-23 01:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nirmal Jayagopalan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years is not a big age gap but when it comes to children you have to be more careful . You don't what men coming in and out of her life. but we are not to say .. does he make you feel special??? go for it why not..
2006-10-23 00:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me myself I think it can work just try to find out if he loves you like you love him and he is not just wanting to get in bed with you.
2006-10-23 00:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by James H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can get in the way of love.So if you two really love each other you should go for it.
2006-10-23 00:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Creshonna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? Didn't you learn from the fist one? Get married first. If he loves you he will wait. I know this is nerdy but it works........Really works... If you "need" him then take birth control. Get sane again........
2006-10-23 09:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no...but if you do..make him wear a condom.
2006-10-23 07:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by broc1212 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋