Even if it was on a rocky path, or even if your feelings for the guy wasn't that strong, do they get a little stronger?
2006-10-22 23:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it may, however i also heard a saying once that may pertain to this situtation:
"a baby will not heal the cracks in your relationship, rather it will stick its little fingers in those cracks and rip them wide open"...
2006-10-23 00:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by tay_jen1 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For some reason I have thought about this topic, just the What If's. I would most likey keep it. I will be honest and say I have had an abortion before years ago, but after having my daughter I know I couldnt do it again. And after carrying a baby in my body I know I would be in love with it no matter the situation. Yes, it would suck that it was a part of a man that would do that, but its also part of me, so worth keeping because Obviously I make beautiful intelligent and super cool children!! :)
2016-03-28 04:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion is if your relationship is already rocky..the pregnancy is not going to help, you have more emotions involved. And as a mother, you start looking out for the long-term of the child (or at least you should). And it is equally unhealthy to live in an unhappy home as a broken one...
To each their own...and hope it works out the way you hope!
2006-10-23 04:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
If the relationship was estranged earlier,
then there may be apprehensions of the
future of the child,
behavior of the husband,
sex of the child,
imparting education to
the child,
financial security for self and the child
etc.
If the relationship was excellent, then
It is the best moment for the mother to
dream of the future of the child,
health of the child
to provide best education to the child
and feel too good to be mother
2006-10-22 23:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by pianist 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pregancy isn't a bed of roses. When I was pregant I used to get pretty pissy with my husband. After all he got all the good out of it and I had to go thru 9 months of being sick and hormonal and fat and then I had to go thru childbirth. And I see my daughters having the same attitude with their husbands even though they have no idea that's how I was too. You always feel a bond with your baby's father but babies don't cure bad relationships. They usually make them worse.
2006-10-22 23:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, it doesn't mean that you are more commited to your relationship. I am assuming you are not married. It means that you both need to be the best for your baby. You cannot base your relationship on your baby. What a burden on a baby. He or she should not be the reason you stay together.
2006-10-22 23:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by paula r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes-- don't count on any baby making a relationship better. babies make relationships harder -- much harder.
I dont think you're doomed. You have the potential to be a very happy family. BUT -- don't go getting pregnant to fix things. won't work. It's been tried many times.
good luck to you!
2006-10-23 00:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it DOES NOT fix problems. If the relationship was good to start with, it will make it better. However, if it wasn't it will only make it FAR worse in the long run. the problems will still be there after the babys born
2006-10-23 01:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question is do you love the man if you dont then be friend you could both talk it out and see if you are both ready to give it a real go . but if you dont love him truly no it wont get stronger
2006-10-22 23:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't get pregnant in a relationship like that .. people seem to think a baby will fix there problems but for what I have seen it only makes it worse and the cracks get bigger and bigger.. thats not fare on either of you or the baby
2006-10-22 23:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋